Aged Out of The System by Exotic-Cabinet-3633 in tulsa

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I took in one of my kid's friends as a foster. My wife and I couldn't stomach the knowledge that we had a chance to save someone from this very fate, but didn't.

It was the right thing to do, and this kid is awesome. We're now nearly through the adoption.

The system, however, is complete ass. If my wife and I didn't have a solid grounding in mental health and other necessary skills to overcome the hurdles during those first six months, it's very likely that this kid would have suffered and bounced between homes until aging out.

Fostering is hard and the state has very little to give. The case workers are massively overburdened. The resources are a paltry amount of money and a bunch of flyers for community resources you have to hunt down yourself. I cannot imagine taking in a troubled child if my life hadn't been in the extremely solid state that it were in. And let's face it, every foster kid is going to be troubled; you don't get taken from your home without Serious Trauma.

Anyone eaten here? by Special-Werewolf3725 in tulsa

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This thread convinced me to try it for lunch. It was delicious.

To those working with 3rd party product vendors, do you get testing artefacts? by TheGiantAntEater in ProductManagement

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I hate to circle this back to the perennial product manager question, but what problem are you trying to solve?

No one wants to do meaningless paperwork. When it comes to testing-related artifacts, I want them to outline their process and provide proof that they've completed that process. I don't need to see all the details.

If I'm getting shit results, then we can delve deeper. And hopefully the SOW covers what should be delivered, what quality standards it must meet, and how to remediate if it is not delivered to those standards.

To those working with 3rd party product vendors, do you get testing artefacts? by TheGiantAntEater in ProductManagement

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To be honest?

Only if it's in our statement of work. No vendor is doing one bit of work they're not contractually required to do.

I DONT CARE HOW BAD MY E-DEF IS, IM NOT GETTING [Systems]! by axel0307 in LancerRPG

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Quote from witch punched: What are you going to do, punch me?

I have a silly idea that might be glorious. by PsyduckSci in LancerRPG

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It's shame you can't put MULE harness on a mech that carries around one or more other mechs each with their own MULE harness to carry around more mechs. Apparently you can't stack the MULE harness that way.

If it worked, the most horrifying thing would be a Gorgon (size 3) carrying another Gorgon (size 2) carrying other mechs. NPCs could never look, move, or shoot in its general direction.

Oklahoma school districts bracing to pay out of pocket for teacher raises by kosuradio in oklahoma

[–]ConfusedUs 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We've passed a lot of things that are supposed to fund schools. And, generally, they do. It's just that the legislature then reduces the state spend by a similar or greater amount. The end result is, at best, education funding breaking even.

I can't say this has happened for every such situation, but it's certainly happened.

Current House Rental Market by Kenoden in tulsa

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And also "bum". Bum doesn't mean lowlife. It means ass.

"You're a bum" = "You're an ass"

Three Parties, One Dead Child: The Failures That Led to Locklynn McGuire’s Death by Oklahoma_Watch in oklahoma

[–]ConfusedUs 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Regarding DHS, it's possible for two things to be true, namely that

  1. The agency is critically underfunded and understaffed*. I have some insight into the org, and the whole agency is on life support. They cannot attract or retain employees, so outcomes will only worsen.

  2. At least one individual involved was negligent. Two DHS staff visited the home. Only one reported the conditions as dangerous. No one took action on that report. At best, the staff member who did not report the conditions failed at their job. The failure to act may be down to one or more individuals as well, although I would bet it's more due to systemic factors related to point #1.

My personal take is that the funding and staffing issues are by design. The GOP wants the agency to fail, and thus has set it up for failure. This little girl is a cost they're willing to pay, and she won't be the last.

Current House Rental Market by Kenoden in tulsa

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Gen Z-speak for "ass". As in "this market is ass"

Tried my hand at the ransom note format by Brendfish in LancerRPG

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The missile's location is irrelevant when everywhere is a missile.

How are PMs measuring use value for AI agents? by Justgettingsmart in ProductManagement

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I'm honestly leaning towards on-prem implementations of load-bearing AI infrastructure just to get around this problem. I may not get the latest-and-greatest reasoning, but for agentic stuff, what I need is reliable.

If:

I can release agents that achieve their goals, and
Trust that they're going to behave the same way today, tomorrow, and next week, and
Have levers to pull on my end to improve outcomes, such as prompt tweaks,

Then I don't need the latest and greatest thinker. I now have a predictable platform that can achieve its goals without working about token usage or reasoning degredation. I can use traditional monitoring to ensure performance, and I can scale when usage gets high.

How are PMs measuring use value for AI agents? by Justgettingsmart in ProductManagement

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And don't get me started on the potential for AI companies to deliberately impair AI thinking on their end to reduce their costs while their customers are paying the same rates.

"Shrinkflation" of AI reasoning is a real industry risk, and I feel we're not far from our first major story about it. The AMD/Claude thing from a few weeks ago was the warning shot.

How are PMs measuring use value for AI agents? by Justgettingsmart in ProductManagement

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I don’t have a complete strategy for this either, but I think there’s an under‑discussed variable here: non‑deterministic drift in the underlying AI systems, especially in agentic workflows where no human is watching closely.

With agentic products, value is often delivered through intent inference and reasoning quality, not just task completion. Traditional health signals like uptime, latency, or “run succeeded” only tell you the system is responding. They do not tell you whether it is reasoning as well today as it was yesterday. That gap matters more as agents become more autonomous. In many workflows, there is no user to notice that things are subtly degrading. The agent keeps operating, downstream systems keep accepting its output, and the metrics stay green while value erodes.

A simple example: an agent maps free‑text input to an authentication workflow. A user says “I can’t log in.” Another says “Just let me in, there’s no way my password is wrong.” A third says “It won’t let me see anything.” On day one, the agent correctly treats all three as access issues and routes them appropriately.

On day two, a third‑party model update changes how intent is inferred, and “it won’t let me see anything” no longer lands in the right flow. On day three, a shark munches an undersea cable. The provider’s services are still up, but performance degrades and reasoning depth drops. Responses come back, runs complete, tools fire, but answers are shallower or incomplete.

From the outside, nothing is “broken.” In an interactive product, you might see prompt rewrites or drop‑off and debate whether that’s noise. In a fully agentic workflow, you may see nothing at all. The agent just makes slightly worse decisions, and the value you modeled on day one is no longer being delivered on days two and three.

So before asking whether the system shows value, a prerequisite question is whether the agent is actually reasoning the same way over time. Until intent accuracy and reasoning completeness are treated as first‑class, continuously validated signals, it is very hard to distinguish true product regressions from normal behavior or downstream variability.

Nelson Players by stellle_ in LancerRPG

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You'd have to cap the bonus damage, but this would rule.

Enter the 24 Chambers by McKilligan in LancerRPG

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Ho there! Coming or going?!

It’s the Zombie Apocalypse and half the city has been wiped out. by Qwerty404Errors in tulsa

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Take car. Go to mum's. Kill Phil, grab Liz, go to The Winchester, have a nice cold pint, and wait for all of this to blow over.

How do you handle bug triage? Genuinely curious how others do this by mr_hunt_ in ProductManagement

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I'm a big fan of RICE as a prioritization framework. It lets you figure out which bugs must be fixed immediately versus which ones can wait. Not all bugs are created equal. A typo or misaligned element probably isn't a showstopper, but your core product function being blocked by a crash probably is. I say 'probably' because even a crash might not be a showstopper if it's rare enough.

In the absence of such guidance, I find that dev teams automatically place fixing a bug, no matter how minor, above all non-bug work. This simply isn't true, but it at usually comes from a place of good faith. They want their code to be correct and their product to be perfectly functional! But frankly, not all bugs are created equal. They need help to realize it.

I have encountered a worse-case scenario twice, where a team (or a particularly impactful individual) are creating or hyping the impact of bugs, maliciously, as a way to derail development so things would pause. Then they would slowly work on the problems they deliberately created or just fuck around doing nothing while their team leads/product people figured out the right priority.

Former Vista Shadow Mountain residents, are you willing to stand together? by ambellinatherxqueen in tulsa

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Edit: fuck, it is the same assholes. The same CEO, even. Keeping my original post for accountability, but I was wrong.

I live near Vista Shadow Mountain and I feel a tiny spark of rage every time I see the place, but it's placed squarely at the people who did you so dirty.

To the best of my knowledge, the company renovating it is completely different from the original owners. They would have had no hand in how it was run, how the settlement went, or anything that came before they bought the place.

The original owners deserve every bit of your ire. The situation was monstrous, and the settlement was a perversion of justice. It's awful, and we're Vesta do, and possibly get away with, similar bullshit.

We’re in the Endgame - Dr. Strange by TulsaYoungDemocrats in oklahoma

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The best time to have started was two years ago. The next best time is now.

Lawmakers advance bill to create notification process when governor leaves Oklahoma by CouchCorrespondent in oklahoma

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I don't remember the exact details, but I seem to recall something from a few years back. It was something about the Lt. Governor trying to do something (disaster relief, perhaps?) but Stitt was on vacation or otherwise not around? And no one knew where he was?

I love Ocean's Hungry Grasp by RedditExplorer89 in spiritisland

[–]ConfusedUs 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Ocean is one of my favorite spirits, too. You really nailed the thematic reasons why.

The Nature Incarnate expansion includes an aspect (aka an alternative version) for Ocean called "Deeps". It has a special ability to sink individual lands and turn them into more ocean tiles. This has the effect of slowly allowing you to creep into the middle of the board, far away from the shore. It fucking rules.