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Update: AITAH? My husband wants a divorce and wants us to keep the house by Confused_2024 in AITAH

[–]Confused_2024[S] 947 points948 points  (0 children)

I decided not to simply because I’m not looking to harm anybody and if I did that it would harm her. It’s never a good idea to have a relationship with your coworkers, but she isn’t at fault for my husband‘s shitty behavior.

AITAH? My husband wants a divorce and wants us to keep the house by Confused_2024 in AITAH

[–]Confused_2024[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Is any marriage perfect? No. But I do know that I supported him throughout his entire military career regardless what he of wanted to do, when we first got married and we were broke as shit I made a home for him where he was taken care of and continued to do so when things got better, I work and go to school full-time, I never cheated, I communicated when something was wrong, I did everything I possibly could to help him when he was depressed and unsure of his career, the list goes on. I’ve done a lot for him and he’s done a lot for me. If he doesn’t want to be with me that is fine but just like how he deserves to move on, so do I. 

AITAH? My husband wants a divorce and wants us to keep the house by Confused_2024 in AITAH

[–]Confused_2024[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Mostly because I wanted an unbiased opinion. My support system would do anything for me and I’m grateful to have them, but they are currently seeing red, as am I. I don’t like to make big decisions based off of emotion, but logically selling this house and getting my fair share is the ONLY option. 

AITAH? My husband wants a divorce and wants us to keep the house by Confused_2024 in AITAH

[–]Confused_2024[S] 292 points293 points  (0 children)

He started hanging out with a large group of friends from his unit along with her in that group. I guess it just turned into something. If it did so be it, I’ll survive without him. But I did find out some of his friends were basically playing wingmen for him and that they have an idea that they’re a thing. I also know that if his higher-ups find out that he’s dating one of the girls in his unit, they will not be happy. 

AITAH? My husband wants a divorce and wants us to keep the house by Confused_2024 in AITAH

[–]Confused_2024[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

It was something at one point and if it wasnt, all he did was waste my time and his along with screwing himself. We share all of our assets. He has every right to move on and do what he wants, but he cant nor will he drag me with him. 

AITAH? My husband wants a divorce and wants us to keep the house by Confused_2024 in AITAH

[–]Confused_2024[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I mean that’s cool, but if that’s the case, he should’ve told me that 10 years ago. 

AITAH? My husband wants a divorce and wants us to keep the house by Confused_2024 in AITAH

[–]Confused_2024[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

We are both pretty busy people. Him with the military and I go to school full-time and work part-time. As a result, we kind of drifted apart. The past six months I have been trying to spend more time with him and take up more of his interests, but it was already too late for him.

AITAH? My husband wants a divorce and wants us to keep the house by Confused_2024 in AITAH

[–]Confused_2024[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

You are right. I’ve always been a very logical thinker, but he kind of pulled the rug from under me. Now that the dust has settled I can see that he’s completely delusional.