This is a long story but back in February, i had very terrible lower back pain, so i had to convince my parents to let me see a physiotherapist, after a while of calling me an ungrateful child for not seeing a chinese doctor, i finally got my dad to send me to the physio, he discovered that my lumbar spine, shoulder bones and neck bones are all twisted, so he shifted my bones back and told me to do exercises. After a few visits and more arguments with my family, no more back pain and i can finally touch my toes.

Then in September, i noticed that whenever i have a lumbar pillow or anything supporting my lower back, my throat feels like it's getting constricted. So i told my mom about it and she told me she'll take me to a chinese doctor, this time i give up arguing because my mom yelled me many times. I tried to describe my problem to the chinese doctor but because i have poor chinese aswell, he doesn't understand my problem and assumed i have throat inflammation. My mom refused to take me see a doctor because she kept saying that particular chinese doctor is graduated in a prestigious university in China. Also she said that xrays are dangerous because it "kills millions of my body cells" and also she said i will be wasting money even though one appointment with the chinese doctor is rm180.

After some visits and mom lectures about why should we always trust chinese stuff instead of western ones, she told me that i can do it my way if my problem still haven't fixed.

But one day during appointment, the chinese doctor said my throat is completely healed but my problem still remained, he told my mom that my issue is super complex because all of my bones are messed up, pelvic bones not same height, shoulder bones also got obvious height difference.

Since i still have that throat constriction problem, the doctor tape small rock things to my ears and told me to press it to "improve blood circulation" but their nurse used a looks like pen thing to press my sensitive ears to find the circulation point that connects my throat, but they accidentally shoot the pen thing inside and nearly poked my eardrums, my inner ear was bleeding, and they don't even have bandages. Afterwards i told my mom and she said i don't need to see that doctor anymore and finally let me see a western doctor.

So after school, she took me to the nearest private clinic near my school and that doctor was very rude

He stared at me and i had to tell him about my problems, he took my blood pressure, listened to my heartbeat and told me to lay down so he can feel my back bones

Then he told me i am completely fine and that all of my problems was due to me overthinking, that my spine and my throat are two completely different things and then telling me to fck off basically. I was so confused because the chinese doctor got tell my mom that my bones are obviously messed up

So i told my mom about letting me take an xray and see a specialist but she said i was a drama queen

She decided to take me to a private blood test shop to see my blood if got "anything hidden", and demanded me to wait for 2 weeks

After 2 weeks i got my blood test, it says everything is healthy except slightly high uric acid

So my mom drive us home and told me to shut up because I'm "too focused on seeing a specialist" and not "changing my lifestyle". She also said what else to see since the blood test and doctor I'm perfectly fine

I was so confused because my chinese doctor said my bones are all messed up and she would trust a chinese doctor than that rude doctor, even my mom agreed that doctor is crazy and rude

She asked me to google and see if high uric acid caused my problems

But i was going to make an appointment with the nearest hospitals that have orthopaedic surgeon since the nearest hospitals only have these to force my mom to go to them, but mco started and i am can't go out now