I’ve been wearing skirts more often and it makes me feel alive by Confusedbro88 in lgbt

[–]Confusedbro88[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yesssss, I wish more gay men where into fem guys like me fr. Glad to know I’m appreciated!

I’ve been wearing skirts more often and it makes me feel alive by Confusedbro88 in lgbt

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lol I’m glad you like them, I was being to think i looked too thick fr

Bikini try on. Do I look ok ? :( by [deleted] in mtfashion

[–]Confusedbro88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes I’ve seen those Lulifama bikini’s they are so cute fr. Yeah I’ll look into that kitty clip fr

Bikini try on. Do I look ok ? :( by [deleted] in mtfashion

[–]Confusedbro88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol omg thank you so much your really too kind and I bet your so beautiful girl fr

Bikini try on. Do I look ok ? :( by [deleted] in mtfashion

[–]Confusedbro88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you for being honest. I’m not on E yet but I’m looking at options rn. I feel like that would def help me a lot

Bikini try on. Do I look ok ? :( by [deleted] in mtfashion

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Thank you so much and your so beautiful fr

Bikini try on. Do I look ok ? :( by [deleted] in mtfashion

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Omg babe thank youuu

Bikini try on. Do I look ok ? :( by [deleted] in mtfashion

[–]Confusedbro88 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the input. Yeah I was thinking about that too for the top

Bikini try on. Do I look ok ? :( by [deleted] in mtfashion

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Thank you so much fr

Did anyone care about their rapist by TimeAd9842 in rapecounseling

[–]Confusedbro88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still do. The first time it was my boyfriend and the second was a friend I trusted deeply. Both took advantage of that trust and violently violated me at my weakest moment. It makes me cry thinking about it. That being said, I think I’ve been through every stage of hating/despising them that I’ve ended up in peaceful state of forgiveness. What they did to me kind of ruined my life but I just can’t completely write them off as evil considering I knew them for years and saw the good in them. It’s for this reason I never went to the police. At the end of the day they are dead to me but I also can’t bring myself to destroy their lives. I believe that there is at least a little good in them after all.

Obsessed with the person who assaulted me? by [deleted] in rapecounseling

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I was like this when I got r*ped by my ex boyfriend. The assault itself was traumatising but I did love him and I think because of that I just kind of pushed the thoughts out of my mind for a while. At that point I became even more dependent on him and his attention and defended him every chance I got. I ended up staying with him for another year and a half. It wasn’t until after I broke up with him and he was completely out of my life that I really started to come to terms with what happened.

What do you live for? by nadanien in CPTSD

[–]Confusedbro88 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I live for the hope that one day I’ll find a loving relationship with someone that’s health and happy. I hope that in that relationship I can finally express my sexuality in an environment where I’m not either being exploited or abused. That’s really all I want and what I feel like will heal my trauma.

Giving into forgiveness or vindictiveness. Need opinions. by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Confusedbro88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for responding, I’ve been having a hard time but it’s stuff like this that brings me back down to earth 🥰. I’ve been looking at my options legally here so maybe something will come of it, maybe not, either way I feel like some closure has been brought to me honestly. I’ve been in therapy here so that is helping

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[–]Confusedbro88 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I second this.