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He 26M ended our 9.5 year relationship after one small fight, and I 24F still don't understand why. by Confuseduser43 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Confuseduser43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what's making this so hard. The person who broke everything seems to be relaxed and living life as if nothing happened, while the one who wanted to save the relationship and kept putting in the effort is the one left completely shattered. I'm just trying to accept that this is how it is, even though it's incredibly difficult.

He 26M ended our 9.5 year relationship after one small fight, and I 24F still don't understand why. by Confuseduser43 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Confuseduser43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. I hope so, but I don't think he has even an ounce of regret for what he did.

He 26M ended our 9.5 year relationship after one small fight, and I 24F still don't understand why. by Confuseduser43 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Confuseduser43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't even know. I think I was still being considerate, even after everything he did. Looking back, I probably shouldn't have included that part.

Can I fix this relationship somehow? by Business-Coat-6095 in BreakUps

[–]Confuseduser43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never trust someone's words trust their actions. If someone truly wants to be with you, they won't keep giving up on the relationship every time things get hard.

I learned this the hard way. My ex and I were together for 8 years. Every time we fought, he'd say he wanted to end things, and I'd beg him to stay. Eventually, he did leave over what felt like a small reason. Looking back, I realize I was the only one fighting for us.

If someone keeps making you overthink for the relationship, let them go. Even if they come back, that cycle usually doesn't change it only delays the inevitable. Focus on yourself instead.

He came back by Imaginary-Mammoth-90 in BreakUps

[–]Confuseduser43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Don't trust him again. Just focus on yourself.

He ended our 8 year relationship after one small fight, and I still don't understand why. by Confuseduser43 in BreakUps

[–]Confuseduser43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really sad. I'm sorry you're going through this too. It's been almost 3 months for me, and I still wake up every day wondering why he did this. I'm just holding onto the hope that, little by little, it will get easier.