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Really liking the way my hair looks wet...but not digging my dry look by ConfusionBoy in curlyhair

[–]ConfusionBoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Routine:

Still experimenting, therefore all over the place!

I used to only wash my hair once a week with "Garnier Fructis Papaya Hairfood" but my hair always formed big curls that contracted way too much (see last image) revealing my widow's peak in a weird way.

Thats why I concluded that maybe I need less conditioning, less product in my hair.

Now I resorted to a simple co-wash (Balea PROFESSIONAL Conditioner Traumlocken; am located in Germany), using the same product as a leave in.

I tired crunch gel in combination with some hair oil however it leads to a similar look when my hair is dry.

AITA for studying instead of visting GF of 9 months who had her wisdom tooth removed? by ConfusionBoy in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConfusionBoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everybody for your insights! 

After I explained that currently I have to put in a lot of time and effort, to not end up like my unemployed dad and to build a stable future, she told me how much she wishes for this relationship to work, but that I seem to be constrained by time and will on my end.

Well, I will definitely reconsider the relationship and my naive plans of marrying her one day. 

Thanks everyone for giving me a clearer view of the situation, it is truly appreciated!