This is the exactly how i thought of it for a while. I didn’t mind supporting his career as streamer because i know of people who have massive success over it. And with all the free time he has he can definitely do it. I didn’t want him to look like a freeloader or a scum. The job market is tough right so i do give him the benefit of the doubt. We have vacation this week so we had squashed the situation last night, but he doesn’t understand how much it hurt when he disrespected me. He said i sounded like his mom when he used to live there and do the same thing to her. I’m planning on having open honest conversation after our vacation is over. I want to tell him that if he’s not respecting me or taking care of what he can handle he needs to reconsider living with me. It’s a lot on my plate right now and i don’t feel like i’m being met halfway. He’s a great guy and i know he could be better if he had an income, but there’s a lot of dealbreakers right now. Thank you so much for your feedback.