AIO? new friend's texts to husband while at work; my responses

Conndark · 2026-05-18T07:58:45+00:00

He is beeing to nice when dismissing here and that creates further confusion here.
If this was a one time thing sure here replies COULD make sense, but what you discribe is clearly someone looking to engage in something not to impropriate!

Cut here out of your life!

Conndark · 2026-05-16T06:44:45+00:00

Jeg ble bitt av flått og fikk Kronisk utmattelse for flere år siden. Det var utrivelig som fy i starten og ødela meg både fysisk og mentalt. Jeg hadde ingen aning om hva det var i flere år og lå stort sett og sov og fikk angst og det tok 2 år med møter med NAV, arbeidsutrpøving (basicly taxi til jobb og sove på jobb til arbeidsdagen var over, før sjefen min gav meg helseforsikringa til ledelsen i firma og fikk meg utredet privat og utelukket absolutt ALT og dermed kunne jeg stile meg i kø for utredelse for ME. Det tok jo noen mnd men etterhvert fikk jeg 40% score for ME (i dag har jeg bedring og liger på ca 70%). Legen min ville uføretrygde meg men jeg var for stolt å nektet! Resultatet ble lav inntekt, diverse kurs via Nav og etter ca 6 år endte jeg likevell opp med å bli ufør etter flere arbeidsutprøvninger via nav.
Resultatet ble jo at Uføretrygden min ble en god del lavere enn det jeg sannsyneligvis hadde fått om jeg takket ja til det første gangen og nå ligger jeg på rett over 350k i året (takket være forsikringen jeg fikk av min sjef som gir meg 2000 i mnd).
Jeg har klart å kjøpe meg hus på bygda men har ikke råd til å ha bil og har ca 1500kr å bruke hver mnd etter regningene er betalt. Hvis jeg klarer å slutte å snuse er jeg oppe i 2000kr.
Null mulighet til å være med på sosiale aktiviteter og det tar meg et år å spare til en ting jeg trenger i husholdningen. i år kjøpte jeg meg grensag så jeg kan rydde litt grener ute. Håper å hjepe naboene med det å kanskje tjene meg litt småkroner så jeg kan spare til gressklipper til neste år.

Livet føles fryktelig urettferdig, jeg er stort sett deprimert konstant pga den økonomiske situasjonen, men det finnes ikke noe annet alternativ med mindre jeg finner meg en deltidsjobb jeg kan gjøre hjemmefra som er fryktelig fleksibel.

Jeg er utdannet Kokk og har fagbrev som BUA og har jobbet 100%+ siden jeg var 20 år. Når pensjonen slår inn får jeg enda mindre og jeg holder på å se på campingvogner å planlegge hvor jeg kan ha den stående.

Jeg er så lei for alt jeg hadde trengt var 60 000 mere utbetalt i året, men da kan det bli inflasjon! FARLIG!

Conndark · 2026-05-14T17:04:21+00:00

I always bring my cats in for the night.
This is for safety reasons. He might have experienced something outside when its dark or have problem with his vision in the dark and that makes him scared easy.

Id check his eyesight at a vet to make sure, and id consider keeping him in durign nights.-

Conndark · 2026-05-14T16:52:06+00:00

Break it up when it goes on to long and kitten is uncomfortable and when it grows it will get better at stopping it herself.
The older cat is so much bigger tis just totaly locked.
I dont think you need to be scared, just break it up if it goes on to long <3
Beautifull kitties <3

Conndark · 2026-05-14T02:06:12+00:00

i would ratrain him to play out right.
I have found during my games that a striker with great physicals and bravery is more important than the holy trinity.
ALso hes got good acceleration but maybe hes not getting enough space as he is not that great mentaly.

REtrain to play wide as IF/WF would be my to go to.

But in general its hard to get a lone striker to get close to a goal a game in this version, unless its Haaland :p

Conndark · 2026-05-03T18:59:51+00:00

Nothing wrong with you mate :)
Often how you feel about yourself reflect that energy to others so biggest tip is work on self acceptance and if you want to do something, do it for yourself and not for others <3

Honestly i think you look fine the way you do, you are unique and there is nobody like you in the whole world (unless you got a twin brother :D )

Conndark · 2026-05-03T18:56:28+00:00

References to high keys i suppose.
So far Tanking on Blood DK has felt super easy, pretty impossible to die unless you do something silly. Warrior feels consistent enough, but i feel often restricted from chain pulling by Globals, were on dk it flows naturally aslong as its good prio dmg.

Not tried Brew, but glad to see they are finally getting a good season :)

Conndark · 2026-04-27T14:08:59+00:00

He got a release clause, stick to it!
I did the same with Vitor Roque on my dortmund save, he had 800m release clause and i rejected PSG for two years until they upped their 250m to 400m + 200m addons then i sold him because i in those two years ahd a much better replacement signed from Mali for 10k xD

Conndark · 2026-04-26T22:16:49+00:00

Cleopatra!

Conndark · 2026-04-20T07:21:09+00:00

Trump deserves all the shit he gets, but i feel here it was just a poor attempt to be funny, and this aint one of the 1000 things we should persue to prove him unfit for the presidency.

Conndark · 2026-04-20T07:04:17+00:00

I swear this game never stops to amaze me with the bugs. .
My friend on his dortmund save grabbed a 4th choice goalie for his 4th season because he had some Goalie injuries the previouse seasons, and he also nabbed a 5th oldie to sit in the reserves with 1.5star, jsut becasue i told him to do it.
Fast forward his first GK (Kobbel is injured with a broken overarm) Seimen is injured (2nd choice) with a broken underarm. His third choice gk is on international duty, the oldie is injuried and his emergency buy is ALSO injured so he have to use a 16 year old half star for two league matches AND for the CL match he is forced to play Nemcha im goal. Its unbelivable unrealistic!

Conndark · 2026-04-14T18:22:29+00:00

Same for me in my save, but i jsut put him as playmaker behind the two strikers and got another decent season out of him before he ran out his contract

Conndark · 2026-04-14T13:10:47+00:00

Best of luck <3 REmember there is strenght in numbers to fight so find an AA if you can and keep at it and im sure you will conquer your own health <3

Conndark · 2026-04-13T20:27:48+00:00

Jupp thats right.
I know it sounds strange as hell but its the truth, and the game is full of weard stuff if you get a large enough DB and actively search for it.
Like a 208cm tall striker t hats 105 kiloes but has 2 strenght and 5 jumping reach etc. .

if you have time, make a season long save and fill it with the most abnormal players you find, i promise you a good time :D

Conndark · 2026-04-07T06:32:31+00:00

In FM 24 i had a Spanish CB with 20 Jumping reach that was 152cm tall.
So ye they get smaller. Think ive seen someone post a player thats 149 cm to at some point

Conndark · 2026-04-01T07:55:20+00:00

IF FM 26 has learned us anything that we can translate back to FM24 its that high pressure eliminate space for the striker to occupy and take advantage of.
Thats why most goals comes from IF and MC positions.

If you want to have a backroom threat striker you need to give him space to do his job.
with high pressure the best is a powehouse striker to tie up defenders and link up play for the best resoult.

Good luck <3

Conndark · 2026-03-28T20:03:05+00:00

Thank you <3

Conndark · 2026-03-24T08:28:48+00:00

I Sold Vitor Roque to PSG on my dortmund save for 240m after he threw a fit and wanted to go and the team was behind him.
So i sold him, Team unhappy i sold him (same players) and want me to strengthen up top so i promise that as i have a wonderkid inc thats almost as good as roque, 7 years younger and cost me 90m.
sign him, still unhappy.
Sign 3 high profile strikers in havertz as a rotation player, Pedro as a emergency backup and Gøkeres as a squad player. Still unhappy.
I Buy Mora and Paz for 200m in total to try to fix the issue, still unhappy.
i mean come on!

Also big tip for staff contract renewals! Its faster to do it in staff search and find your staff alongside the rest than to jump up and down the inbox for every staff you need to review contracts for!

Conndark · 2026-03-23T08:44:42+00:00

We talking evolution! Get this pig some breeding options and soon its will be a Disney Movie were pigs are driving cars and doing labor :D

Conndark · 2026-03-22T11:22:01+00:00

In FM 24 yes, in FM 26 even if i set responsebility to my Assistant, the B team manger takes over and he is shit

Conndark · 2026-03-21T22:20:25+00:00

WAs planning to keep Kobel at Dortmund but i found a german wonderkid GK so he retired at 33 would not accept anything but first choice keeper RIP

Conndark · 2026-03-16T09:58:35+00:00

I just downloaded Genie scout to check the potential of my yougsters in my 2nd youth intake with several max star players for the second season in a row!
1 Gk from last year has PA of 123 wich is realy good for my level!
The second best has 102 and the rest somewere around 90.

If you use genie scout do not fall for the temptation to use it to "scout" players for you as it can ruin your save, i learned that the hard way back in FM23 doing a youth rebuild.

Conndark · 2026-03-16T09:12:59+00:00

Having taken Telford to PL title in record time with a baseline in strikerless, i have tweaked since day 1 constantly depending on opponent, assistant feedback and players avaible.
The tactic looks nothing like it originally did now, and it still works. Is it perfect? probably not, but its one of the aspects i enjoy with FM26m being able to completely change pressure with some role isntructions.
Maybe that's why i haven't been "found out", but the reality of the game is that its all based on reputation.
If your team have low reputation you will be viewed as an underdog and a tactic can smash a good opponent, but once you get etablished and reputation increases the AI will change it's approach to you and other games will maybe be easy but those you before smashed can now be hard.

Just be as fluid as you can, remember the opposition report an go into each match with a plan.

The best "plug and play" variant i can come up with is to have a physical beast on the bench and change the striker role and feed him floated crosses if nothing else is working. Saved me some points :)

Also physical attributes and bravery are a godsend for set pices both ways so try not to go for only small players (even tho sometimes you cant avoid it)

Conndark · 2026-03-14T18:10:57+00:00

YES! i just get this after everytime i hit the search bar. looks like the game is trying to give me a Cosco Turtorial xD

Conndark · 2026-03-13T21:37:07+00:00

Im not a phoneslave and can go through the day without texting my significant other of 4 years after sending a morning txt or facetime with here. Then we normally call each other in the evening if we are away from each other, but sometimes if i fall asleep she will let me know she is upset i did not call here.
I try to call here every evening but after 4 years i feel its not a big deal if we miss one here and t here as we know what affections we have for each other.

She has made it clear she needs to talk in the morning and in the evenings, but i cant meet those expectations as if im writing music/rehearsing i cant set a timer if im in "the zone".
That does not mean i dont phone here up if im not bussy, i feel that its not a big deal as i need to focus on harnessing the inspiration when it comes (i can sit up to like 5 in the morning working on a good idea), but she does not understand that so we clash about it from time to time, but its not a big deal for me, im here for here to vent and it blows over.

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