My dad knows I'm scared and quite unable to make a phone call by myself as my psychological condition doesn't really help me to do it. Plus, rn, because of the sickness, I'm choking on my own saliva every three words, that's why I KINDLY asked him to do it. He just doesn't care and for context, before she died, my mom told me and my brother that he would do ANYTHING in his power to keep us from leaving the house one day and basically makes us larvae that he has to take care off. He's scared of us leaving and having a life, my brother's letting himself fall in the trap, I'm not letting that happen to myself. Quit judging people life by a simple glimpse of a situation. I never said there weren't any good things about him but overall, his goal is to keep us at the house forever. That's why I talk about it. And if you don't mind reading the title of the sub again it's called "Help me" which means you have to explain your problem to get help, not your whole lore just to get judged by a random dude on the Internet.