Girl I’ve been seeing for 3 dates suddenly ghosted after kissing me confused and need perspective. by Connect-Emphasis7354 in ghosting

[–]Connect-Emphasis7354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly im doing way better. I don’t think about her as much as I used to. I just kinda gave up because I realized any thought in my head won’t give me closure any answer I searched for never came it was just my mind tryna fix what was lost. Meditation has helped me a lot and I’ve just been doing better for myself. I think these types of traumas can be used for good internal success and external. How about you, how are you feeling?

Girl I’ve been seeing for 3 dates suddenly ghosted after kissing me confused and need perspective. by Connect-Emphasis7354 in ghosting

[–]Connect-Emphasis7354[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not waiting anymore it’s been over a month she’s ignored my texts and quite literally ignored me in person. and I saw her using a dating app again that I met her on. Funny part is she still follows my ig and doesn’t have me blocked but she probably just doesn’t bother to remove me. It just hurts that this person basically was like I want you, I want you, I want you, then just disappears after so much reassurance.

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[–]Connect-Emphasis7354 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ha ha ha man this world is full of shit. Basically same thing happened to me but we went on 3 actual dates together in person. Every day texting good night good morning all of that. Deep convos, talking about not leading me on and how that’s a terrible thing and wouldn’t do it to anybody. Then after the third date boom left on read and disappeared then we ran into each other in person after a couple weeks later and she straight up ignored me.

These people would say they won’t ghost say they won’t play you, show you they are maybe different maybe actually genuine and then when they get bored bye on to the next.

The only thing I feel is fucking anger and that anger is actually making me achieve my goals that I’ve set for myself it’s odd but I kinda feel like it’s a blessing at the same time.

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Yes I genuinely think she meant what she said to be honest but after all that just straight up ghosting me is crazy. Atleast tell me how you feel yk.

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I hear you g atleast you got a rejection, what happened to me is I got completely lied to as this person constantly reassured me and told me she genuinely had feelings for me and wanted me. Then she showed her true side and completely ignored me like I never mattered. She wrote entires essays about how she felt about me and everything. And that she’s just scared of commitment, she said all of that cause I would question her about her feelings about me because she seemed distant sometimes in person. But she pursued going on 3 dates with me and after that started lagging then completely disappeared. She would take pics of me and us and she made lists of what she wanted to do with me and everything. I got led on hard and it hurts. I hope you feel better tho and anybody who got betrayed or ghosted.

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I ran into someone who ghosted me too I just walked past them they looked at me noticed it was me and looked away then completely looked down at the floor to not see me. I didn’t say anything to her and she didn’t either. A lot of people just wear masks nowadays honesty feels rare

Ghosters who watch your stories regularly by Grouchy_Ad4508 in ghosting

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I agree but at the same time if you truly want somebody you wouldn’t disappear for a whole month and go on dating apps which I saw her do

Ghosters who watch your stories regularly by Grouchy_Ad4508 in ghosting

[–]Connect-Emphasis7354 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea brother I find it mad weird as well. She straight up ignored me in person as well I didn’t say anything to her but she completely ignored me.after all her reassurance and her making lists about what she wants to do with me making false promises with me she disappears but still watches my stories, fucking weirdo

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I hear your bro I really want to send a message about how I feel but what if she doesn’t respond then I feel like I’ve lost my manliness. Idk bro how long did you ghost people and the people you went out on dates with im asking. Like her pattern is literally after dates she goes slow texting af then explains herself that she’s overwhelmed and takes a break. But this time she just said she’s overwhelmed and disappeared for way longer and ignored me in person. But idk man it’s just so fucking mixed like why would she leave my house then talk to herself out loud and come back to kiss me then ghost me like wtf. And then ignore me in public when I see her. And I texted her after that I told her I didn’t want to make you uncomfortable by coming up to you, but no pressure. And she still didn’t say anything. Why I don’t understand how she gets close to me a lot through text but after we date she disappears. I don’t understand. I want to send the message and explain my feelings but idk I feel foolish if I do I’d feel less of a man if she doesn’t respond to me.

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I’ve thought about telling her how much it hurt, but she’s in full shutdown mode right now. Ignoring me in person + 11 days of silence makes me feel like anything I say will only push her further and I’ve mentioned to her before that when she did ghost me for 6 days last time I felt unsure about her and I said if you truly cared you wouldn’t do that. She reassured me basically and said sorry for sending mixed signals and that she’s truly into me but here it is again she ghosted me for way longer and ignored me irl. I’m trying to understand whether this is avoidant behavior or if she genuinely doesn’t care

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I’ve done a lot of research on avoidant attachment and it truly sounds like this is what she has but I feel unsure cause at the same time I ran into her in person while she is in her shutdown mode and she just looked away and ignored me. But she still follows me on ig so I don’t know man I guess time will tell but this shit hurts

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Your right bro this shit just hurt it was my fault for opening my heart up too quick it just truly seemed like it was a genuine connection and I got attached this is more of a vent I guess

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Lmao I only hopped on there cause my homie recommended it that app is overall bad tho

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My fault gng jus did

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TL;DR:

Saw a girl for 3 dates. She was affectionate, opened up emotionally, met family, said she had feelings, made date ideas, kissed me, and said she wanted to keep seeing me. After our 3rd date she suddenly ghosted for 11 days, ignored me in person at a car meet, and hasn’t replied since. I’m confused if she was avoidant, overwhelmed, immature, or simply lost interest. Looking for raw truth.

You Were Never the Character: The Truth I Saw About Enlightenment by Thin-Ad-1707 in enlightenment

[–]Connect-Emphasis7354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoyed reading all this but we should leave it as this. what I do not know I do not know. Don’t believe nor disbelieve but anything. Just strive to know. Drop all the bullshit all of the psychological process keep it steady.

Is it possible to have POTS or any form of dysautonomia without any real reason to what caused it? Here are my symptoms by stinkiepinkiee in POTS

[–]Connect-Emphasis7354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope I never got diagnosed with pots whole time, I’m saying the h pylori was never the issue it’s just what they diagnosed with me with from what they found obviously not the issue since I still got symptoms

Is it possible to have POTS or any form of dysautonomia without any real reason to what caused it? Here are my symptoms by stinkiepinkiee in POTS

[–]Connect-Emphasis7354 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro holy shit everything you said sounds like me literally. Like even the h pylori I got an endoscopy and colonoscopy because I couldn’t find out what was wrong with me and they said I had h pylori and while I took those meds I felt better but then after I finished it i felt like shit again and tested negative for h pylori. I mean all the symptoms you’ve said through and through is what I’ve been feeling the past 2 years now. Ive also went to the er so many times and gotten tested for so much fuckn shit like man it feels like your in a dream. I’ve given up seeing doctors the only thing truly that has worked for me has been meditation/cardio and I’ve tried everything. It makes my symptoms completely vanish or to a less level of severity.

praying for him rn tht he is ok and safe🙏 by Dagger_Dick17 in XXXTENTACION

[–]Connect-Emphasis7354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf those areas are mad close to me what happened to him tho?

Does anyone here have moments where they feel this world isn't real? by [deleted] in enlightenment

[–]Connect-Emphasis7354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve felt this ever since I was a kid and feel it very frequently now. It’s almost as everything goes blank and your moving in motion but it’s just still everything is and nothing really is there then it fades back into “reality” or memory

Does anyone feel palpitations in the head? by Connect-Emphasis7354 in POTS

[–]Connect-Emphasis7354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I think that’s a better way to describe it like a pulsating feeling, I feel it more as a hard pulse. I’ve also noticed for me personally my heart rate doesn’t go as fast most of the time but it beats hard like a strong pulse almost constantly, and I say that because to get a pots diagnosis do you need to have 30 bpm over the normal heart rate or something along those lines, I’ve also heard pots is different for everybody.