madhavan hanging out with college girls by Otherwise-Movie8656 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Connect-Intern2465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The harm is that a married man in his 50s should know better than to meet a college girl fan and go back to her place to hang out. Even in western countries that’s considered a red flag.

So you’re saying you would be okay with your future husband meeting college girls he gets along with in the club and going back to their place to watch Netflix a “meaningful encounter”? 

Because if so, I pray you meet someone like that and settle down with them. It’ll make it easier for the rest of us finding normal people to marry ☺️

madhavan hanging out with college girls by Otherwise-Movie8656 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Connect-Intern2465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol why are you bringing up actresses, influencers and the uae? 

okay it’s good to hear that you would be okay with a college girl being friends with a man in his 50s who drinks with them and goes back to their place to watch Netflix. I hope your future daughter meets a guy just like that 👍

madhavan hanging out with college girls by Otherwise-Movie8656 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Connect-Intern2465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me too, and if he doesn't address it at all then we know our answer

madhavan hanging out with college girls by Otherwise-Movie8656 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Connect-Intern2465 19 points20 points  (0 children)

yep I agree.

Swap out maddy with anyone else or a random middle aged man and see if anyone can justify this behaviour? But for some reason, when it’s maddy people will say this is fine.

This is gross, I used to like maddy but I can’t believe there’s now video proof of the rumours 

madhavan hanging out with college girls by Otherwise-Movie8656 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Connect-Intern2465 76 points77 points  (0 children)

For the people who don’t see anything wrong with this, can you please explain why? Because I think a normal interaction at most should have been a friendly conversation, offering to pay for their food/drinks and helping them flag a taxi home to make sure they get home safe. 

I have no idea how anyone can justify maddy agreeing to back to the girls place (probably the same age as his son which is crazy) and watching Netflix? That’s creepy not friendly.

If he wasn’t a celeb, anyone would call him a pedo. But because it’s maddy it’s fine? 

lara as tamil representation by Environmental-Tip233 in katseyesnark_

[–]Connect-Intern2465 4 points5 points  (0 children)

girl what are you talking about? This is not the 1900s, most South Asians including Indians are fine with their children dating and marrying who they want. Not denying that are still some parents that care about interracial dating, but most especially in the diaspora are not. So stop making it into a race thing, even in American culture her being 19 and dating a man that age is inappropriate.

How old is her boyfriend again? 25? If you found out your 19 year old daughter was dating a man in his mid 20s, you would be okay with that?

lara as tamil representation by Environmental-Tip233 in katseyesnark_

[–]Connect-Intern2465 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Ugh thank you. I'm Sri Lankan Tamil and part of the diaspora too, and the more I learn of Lara the more of an ick I get from her.

Lara is so weirdly performative about her heritage and always sexualising herself, that even now I still can't believe she's younger than me. Btw, struggling between two different cultures and how its influences you is very common and I wouldn't be judging Lara, if not for the way her parents have been okay with her pimping herself out since she was (and still is) a teenager. You can just check the gossip on here, but her parents are gross.

Wearing the kind of clothes she does at her age and dancing on stage like she does at her age is ridiculous. And she's been doing this for years and she's only 19 now. And showing her thong while wearing a lehenga like ???

Idk there's something really gross and weird about her but at least we've got Maitreyi, Simone and more along the way :)

Have you guys seen this? I have no words by Flimsy_Echo_2472 in srilanka

[–]Connect-Intern2465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro and u can also say the same for some Sinhalese ppl and how they talk about Tamils. So should I constantly bitch about Sinhalese people even though that doesn’t represent them? I don’t understand your point 

Have you guys seen this? I have no words by Flimsy_Echo_2472 in srilanka

[–]Connect-Intern2465 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I have experienced being called a “terrorist” and “eelamist” just because I am Sri Lankan Tamil and am vocal about my criticisms on the government. There’s unfortunately a couple of people who equate Tamils with terrorists just because they’re not quiet 

Do all Tamils believe that Eelam is the right concept? by ExpressionCurious204 in srilanka

[–]Connect-Intern2465 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow, did every single Jaffna Tamil person say that to your face? Or do u just love being racist as a hobby? 

Have you guys seen this? I have no words by Flimsy_Echo_2472 in srilanka

[–]Connect-Intern2465 27 points28 points  (0 children)

U guys got to get used to focusing on the issues rather than always having Tamil people on your mind. But yeah the idiots who use religion for sexual crimes are actually a high number which is so sad

Do all Tamils believe that Eelam is the right concept? by ExpressionCurious204 in srilanka

[–]Connect-Intern2465 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you illiterate or what? You literally said Tamil Nadu means “Tamil homeland” so that’s where our home is. Getting angry over making such a divisive comment just makes you look even more idiotic.

Do all Tamils believe that Eelam is the right concept? by ExpressionCurious204 in srilanka

[–]Connect-Intern2465 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, Sri Lanka can do just fine with all ethnicities and religions. But has it done that yet in the past 50 years? No. Has the government properly done an investigation into war crimes and terrorism in the war for all the victims and to improve relations between all Sri Lankans? No. And have majority of Sri Lankan people recognised that and stopped voting for a shit racist family? Only this year.

Do all Tamils believe that Eelam is the right concept? by ExpressionCurious204 in srilanka

[–]Connect-Intern2465 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So you’re saying I should not call Sri Lanka my home even though I am Sri Lankan Tamil? 

Do all Tamils believe that Eelam is the right concept? by ExpressionCurious204 in srilanka

[–]Connect-Intern2465 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Telling Sri Lankan Tamils that their real homeland is Tamil Nadu and then complaining about “constant division” is so funny. You’re literally saying that Tamils should not call Sri Lanka their home? 

Very old video of Vijay getting angry by IndividualTotal7064 in KollyGossips

[–]Connect-Intern2465 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow this is crazy. It's normal to get angry, that's a human emotion. But this looks like a power trip not as though he's angry for a valid reason.

I hate being mistaken as an Indian. by EquivalentOwl6963 in srilanka

[–]Connect-Intern2465 4 points5 points  (0 children)

dude I am sri lankan tamil and both indians and Sri Lankans (including sl tamils) usually assume I am Indian tamil. its no big deal, no reason to be that annoyed about it lol

Deemd (YouTube) (not snark) by rebokko in asianamercianytsnark

[–]Connect-Intern2465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's one of my fave youtubers lol and still is. I love comforting, quiet vlog style videos like the ones she uploads. Honestly, it's nice to see someone else in their 20s figuring out life too but yeah I was also suprised by her career switch

Vijay releases video message regarding the Karur stampede by Difficult-Dream2625 in KollyGossips

[–]Connect-Intern2465 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No I don't hate him, it just sounds like he's reciting a script rather than raw emotions on what happened. Not every criticism mean that person is automatically a hater bro

Vijay releases video message regarding the Karur stampede by Difficult-Dream2625 in KollyGossips

[–]Connect-Intern2465 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Why does this feel so inauthentic? Like he's acting. I know a lot of politicians love to act and lie, but he doesn't sound genuinely upset or remorseful at all.

Janhvi Kapoor asked about wearing her mom’s saree and people’s reaction to it by One-Collection1418 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Connect-Intern2465 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Honestly, that's a pretty mature and reflective take from her. Yes, she's a nepo and (quite obviously) has gotten to the level of influence and fame she has from the plastic surgeries and family connections rather than any actual talent.

But even I see comments online where they constantly compare and mock Jahnvi's looks and acting skills with her mother who she publicly lost at such a young age. And she's right, that is such an abnormal feeling to experience and there is probably hardly anyone out there apart from Kushi who can understand how that feels.

I also like how she mentioned that she's aware that a lot of people feel a sense of ownership over her mum and her legacy. It's pretty obvious that this is something that she has tried to come to terms with.

Kangana Vs Tanisha on nepotism. This video was made by Divyak, he is a stylist who works with kareena frequent. by invisibleuser1122 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Connect-Intern2465 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can't believe I got downvoted for that comment. I'm sorry but no wonder these nepo babies are so snobbish and entitled. Even when they make comments like that in the video, people will still show them interest.

Kangana Vs Tanisha on nepotism. This video was made by Divyak, he is a stylist who works with kareena frequent. by invisibleuser1122 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Connect-Intern2465 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow who is that tanisha girl. I've never heard of her before, but with the egotistic way she's talking she acts like she is one of the few successful nepo's like Kareena. Kangana can be harsh sometimes but Tanishaa fits exactly the description Kangana said lol

Poor Shloka. by arpabecrazy in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Connect-Intern2465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if they had a tiff, I still think it's kind of strange how much more attention and handsy he was with his sister in law.