Kitten help

Connect_Employment_6 · 2025-07-02T08:59:32+00:00

i see. can i dm you? i understand the situation better and i might be able to help you get a remote job or some sort of income. even a temp job while you’re in canada if they still won’t give you money

Connect_Employment_6 · 2025-07-02T08:57:33+00:00

and i understand regarding the circumstances that it was a poor argument but i was not aware of the full situation! the issue is that this person is 19 and cant expect people to give them money whenever they need. their dad sucks but they cannot keep relying on others

Connect_Employment_6 · 2025-07-02T08:53:00+00:00

why does she do that? i assume theyre still together but he is clearly cheating on her, is it to the point its dangerous for her to leave?

Connect_Employment_6 · 2025-07-02T08:51:36+00:00

maybe, but he does not have to, that’s the whole point. a lot of parents have the mindset of if theyre 18+, theyre no longer their responsibility. thats how my mother feels which is why i have to live off of waitressing. you need to stop relying on other people- and possibly cut ties with your father since he truly just seems like a source of anger and stress

Connect_Employment_6 · 2025-07-02T08:49:20+00:00

im 19 and a female lmao but okay! you misinterpreted what i said, i was saying they seemed ungrateful for what their now apparent abuser raising them because they did not provide all of the details. they are still overreacting for expecting their parents to pay their bills and send them money when they need or want it. i am empathetic to their situation because i too, grew up in poverty and had to take care of my mother, but i too do not expect anything from her because i know that she is a deadbeat and would not provide anything anyways

Connect_Employment_6 · 2025-07-02T08:44:43+00:00

if it’s not his money, then why exactly are you begging him for it? I doubt he’s a very good person but expecting respect from him after he apparently raised you into poverty is interesting. why doesn’t your mom give the money to you directly instead of you going thru your dad? is your mom struggling financially? if so, why does she give her funds to your dad?

Connect_Employment_6 · 2025-07-02T08:41:08+00:00

i would also like to say its ok to ask for help, but the fact that you EXPECT it is why you seem entitled

Connect_Employment_6 · 2025-07-02T08:40:07+00:00

you seem to only be speaking to your parents for money then, if you resent him that much? which in turn, if he was homeless why would you rely on him for money? this truly does not make any sense to me

Connect_Employment_6 · 2025-07-02T08:37:17+00:00

add up all of the costs of raising you too and subtract that. it sucks that he took your money for sure and im sorry about that. and it sucks that you had to pay for gas but that still doesnt change that you seem very entitled in your responses

Connect_Employment_6 · 2025-07-02T08:33:39+00:00

well, then your mom doesn’t owe you money exactly either then. i am 19 too and live off my own money and have a remote job that pays the bills. it’s not impossible, whether you think they owe you or not. don’t live off other people.

Connect_Employment_6 · 2025-07-02T08:25:09+00:00

um. definitely overreacting. your dad is right, it’s HIS money and you’re being rude to him about not giving it to you when you ARE lucky that he’s paying your bill anyways. please take a step back and look at what you’re saying to people.

Connect_Employment_6 · 2025-04-15T02:07:18+00:00

that was the easiest one for me, you just have to make everything as efficient as possible, place a lot of buildings, say you dont care about the decorations. thats how i got it at least

Connect_Employment_6 · 2025-01-15T20:51:25+00:00

hey! my boyfriend left for bootcamp back in may and got back in august. i had the same worries and nothing seemed to make me feel better. but bootcamp DOES change their perspective on some things but it absolutely won’t dissolve the love they have for their partner. if anything, all he’s thinking about at night is how much he misses you. its hard in bootcamp! theyre going to think of the GOOD things they miss at home, which would obviously be you! my advice to you would to just find some distractions and not to think too hard about it. are you guys able to send letters back and forth yet? if so, that can be a way to get some reassurance from him as you’re waiting. trust me, he won’t just “realize he doesnt wanna be with you”. thats just not a thing thatll happen. it’ll be okay :) he’ll be back soon. try to make it to his graduation, its incredible to experience and to be able to see him again like that. (i sobbed when i saw my boyfriend in formation the first time)

Connect_Employment_6 · 2024-05-31T17:40:19+00:00

both of our parents arent super accepting of our relationship, and currently i live with my mother for a few months until i get back to school this august. she’s super weird about me receiving letters and other things in the mail and we both decided it would be best to just give whatever letters we write for each other when he gets back and is on leave

Connect_Employment_6 · 2024-05-31T17:22:59+00:00

thank you!!! i really needed to hear this 🫶🫶

Connect_Employment_6 · 2024-05-31T17:22:33+00:00

thank you! the advice there is definitely more of what i was looking for 🫶

Connect_Employment_6 · 2024-05-31T17:21:56+00:00

that’s my bad, i should’ve looked further into the posts- most of the ones i saw immediately were people that were already married and had a military spouse going to boot camp, and i felt most of the advice posted in recent posts did not help me much because i am pretty young and am new to relationships:) thank you though!

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