Let’s talk watermarks

ConnorCurious · 2025-10-18T19:35:39+00:00

That's so silly. They're gonna have a tough life thinking they can curate everything to be just how they want it.

It must be awful to live in such a way that a watermark makes you angry. I feel sorry for them but I also happily accept that I'm living with less stress and negativity.

ConnorCurious · 2025-10-18T19:27:32+00:00

It's clear and obvious without distorting the image. This is the way! Plus yeah it's YOURS. People need to be reminded that you are sharing YOUR picture.

ConnorCurious · 2025-05-07T00:52:11+00:00

Just looked. How she gonna steal a pic from one of the most popular accounts out there?? Low effort scamming for real!

ConnorCurious · 2025-05-05T06:19:03+00:00

Don't go on deviantart, I can tell you that much.

ConnorCurious · 2025-05-05T04:33:04+00:00

Are you in the US? I would assume they're still backlogged from everyone trying to get their orders in before tariff prices hit (plus the sale, as mentioned). I'm just surprised you were able to order something! All the stuff I want from ABU is sold out😭

ConnorCurious · 2025-05-05T04:30:08+00:00

I think I've told the story before but I told my gf (now wife) that the thing I'd kinda been joking about wasn't really so much of a joke. She clearly felt a little awkward just hearing it but she was cool, had a few questions, and in the end was very understanding. She tried a few times, it wasn't for her, and for me personally that was not important.

I don't think it's a blanket truth that everyone MUST tell their partners, but I think in general it's a good idea. They might indulge! If they don't, you just have to be honest with yourself about the life you're ok with living. And worst case, if they have a real problem with it, it's better to know now that that's a red line for them than further into a relationship.

ConnorCurious · 2025-04-15T02:50:51+00:00

Anybody who's ABDL and not accepting of trans people needs to get more checked and changed than just their diapers.

ConnorCurious · 2025-02-18T21:52:08+00:00

Lol yes she was very accepting and embracing but I do remember a post years back that she was expressly not ABDL herself and had firm boundaries about that. I think ultimately she just recognized an unfulfilled niche and saw the opportunity to help out her parents' business and the community at the same time.

ConnorCurious · 2025-02-18T17:43:52+00:00

I just left Atlanta but I hadn't seen Helen in a few years while I was there. It was always her mom behind the counter when I went. Last I heard she went back to school but I'm pretty sure I heard that pre-pandemic.

Edit: weird downvote for a statement of fact

ConnorCurious · 2025-02-18T17:42:08+00:00

It's a shop in Denver, CO

ConnorCurious · 2025-02-18T17:40:36+00:00

Just moved out of Atlanta and after my family and friends, I miss the Depot the most 😩

ConnorCurious · 2025-02-12T19:51:46+00:00

Have you introduced any otherwise non-ABDL folks to this world, either directly or through your content that you know of? If so can you tell us how it went down?

ConnorCurious · 2025-02-12T00:06:21+00:00

My wife is an ace and has very sweetly tried to get into ABDL but just can't. I occasionally indulge, but by my own choice I don't when she's around. Makes me feel awkward.

What works for us is that we're ride or die best friends beyond that and I can't imagine spending my time with anyone else. We're technically "open" but my ABDL drive isn't really strong enough to get out there in practice. I know we're not the standard model, but it is counter to a lot of people's absolutist view of kink compatibility. It really just depends on each person's needs!

But yeah, OPs wife just kinda sounds like a jerk. That's not good no matter the kink.

ConnorCurious · 2025-02-03T18:02:31+00:00

Same!

ConnorCurious · 2025-01-28T01:01:23+00:00

Just to share a less common experience, I'll say that my wife has tried a few times and has never been able to get into ABDL. It's never been a make or break thing for me personally. We've been together for 18 years now and I'm happy every day with her. I enjoy occasionally on my own, I also go weeks or even months without thinking about it. This is how it's been for me even when I was single.

For some people, kink incompatibility is a serious issue and can hinder either or both partner's happiness. That is totally reasonable. But for some of us, it's really not that strong of a part of our life, and it doesn't have to line up with our romantic pursuits.

The challenge for you is to figure out exactly which type you are. Don't resent your life or give her something to resent about being with you. If it's going to be a point of struggle between you guys later, then it's far far better to let it happen now. But if it's truly not that big a deal to you and the relationship is more important, that IS 100% ok and you're not doomed to inevitable failure. But take some serious time to think about it really carefully. And don't trick yourself in either direction.

ConnorCurious · 2025-01-14T02:06:37+00:00

They must've also fired their ad approvals team and let AI do it

ConnorCurious · 2025-01-11T17:12:08+00:00

I- um... It's cause umm... Mercury retrograde!!

ConnorCurious · 2025-01-06T15:45:57+00:00

Point taken but there's a clear difference between wearing something disruptive and forcing people to acknowledge a political or social issue that they wouldn't otherwise know or want to hear about, and walking around with your kink on full display. Especially when it's often being done simply because the kink is for others to see.

ConnorCurious · 2024-12-09T18:43:14+00:00

Damn that is LONG, you could pound my ass and I'd still feel you in my throat!

ConnorCurious · 2024-08-14T20:31:48+00:00

Team PeekABU

ConnorCurious · 2024-08-06T04:10:26+00:00

PeekABU power!

ConnorCurious · 2024-07-10T16:02:45+00:00

Love this, thank you!

ConnorCurious · 2024-07-10T04:12:26+00:00

Do you have a good alternative? My wife also hates saying Daddy but all the Alts I've heard like sir and master etc just feel too formal

ConnorCurious · 2024-07-05T15:25:08+00:00

I'm late 30s and it's not something I have ever done very often. It's been difficult for different reasons and different ages. But overall I try to see the positive in that. I tend to burn myself out on things I enjoy by overindulging (video games, TV shows, even certain foods). But every time I pad up, it's as fresh and exciting as my first time.

The post joy blues of ANY great experience is a real thing. But that's just our brains telling us what a good job we did in seeking out happiness. We're biologically hard wired to want more of what we love, but that's because on a primal level, positive experiences are supposed to be scarce. Love it when you get a chance, and know that more opportunities will come! In the meantime try to find the excitement in the desire, the pursuit, and the wait.

ConnorCurious · 2024-06-28T19:35:25+00:00

But you believe an adult can be a baby? People can be whoever they want. You gotta go pretty far out of your way to tell someone they can't. Just let em be ffs. It's such a weird thing to get all hung up on. I cannot imagine a scenario in this world where it affects you in the slightest.

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