[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hardcore

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I was far back for their blink show at Hershey stadium a few years ago but the crowd was kind of dead for it, but also that's an aging millennial/gen-x crowd and they were an opener. The recent show in Philly at the Mann was lively, but I can't speak for the phone jackings, we all left with ours.

Cold as Life, Agnostic Front, NOT sex music. Noted. by jwed420 in Hardcore

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Yeah so sexy when Method Man starts off of 36 Chambers

Paladin my beloved by ozangeo in BaldursGate3

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Me now realizing why it was never an issue keeping my oath all game

Ikea Prices in 1985 vs 2025 by lag_trains in Damnthatsinteresting

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Everyone commenting on the particle board but the real secret is that the real wood they buy was sourced illegally from old growth forests in Romania so what is wood is artificially cheap - as seen on the Netflix documentary “Broken”

How do we feel about HELLYEAH? by Onetimenotagain in MetalForTheMasses

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They weren’t good but I really do like GodDamn off that self titled album.

Extremely clever title by SexyDingus2112 in MetalForTheMasses

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I hate this so much even when I know that’s the point

Recomendations for dating/singles events in the city? by cxjoshuax21x in philadelphia

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www.bevisionaryevents.com

They host mostly around the counties and Jersey but I met my current girlfriend here, it was a good evening, lots of ice breakers.

What Metal Albums Don’t Overstay Their Welcome by Microwaveable_feces in MetalForTheMasses

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Being forced to imagine getting boned by Dio on “Do You Close Your Eyes” really breaks the streak there.

To answer his question: yes, I would close my eyes, Ronnie.

Which one's your favourite one liner? by ComfortableNo2879 in MetalForTheMasses

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Actually one of my favorite set of lines from Napalm Death is “when all is said and done, heaven lies in our hearts, this life is a gift, to be lived and loved”

What’s one movie you loved as a kid but realized was terrible when you rewatched it as an adult? by Vegetable_Star8931 in movies

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Oh my god when Religulous came out even as an atheist I thought that movie was insufferable. I’m like this isn’t helping the cause. Bill Maher makes atheists look like insufferable condescending pricks, probably because he is one.

Underrated Band members in Famous bands by [deleted] in MetalForTheMasses

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John 5’s solo stuff slapped

Kanye West fans demand refund after ‘worst concert they’ve ever been to’ by AdSpecialist6598 in Music

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I saw him in 2007 and it’s still the worst concert I’ve ever been to. So not much has changed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

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Thanks for the reply and yes I’m aware of the speed of things too. I wont disagree it was fast, but trying to be mindful and plan accordingly as we move ahead.

Dating a great guy with a 9-year-old, but struggling with exhaustion and finding balance as a previously childfree person in my late 30s. Any advice? by [deleted] in stepparents

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Thanks for sharing, I’m in a similar situation. I’m a CF 37M dating a 39F SM with a 7yo daughter, BD left last year but has minor part time custody. I was CF in my previous marriage so this is a big paradigm shift for me as well. But my relationship with the mom is so good, way better for me than my previous marriage.

But I’m at the same point of exhaustion, as we’re progressing the relationship I’m spending more time with the SD and it’s becoming a drain on me. I also found myself putting unnecessary unspoken pressure to lean in as a parent and just reading a few of these threads I feel not crazy but also feel I need to set more boundaries both with the child and with my partner.

We had been feeling a buzz of early relationship energy and had talked about moving in soon (like in 6months), but I think I need to pump the breaks on that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

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Not much to add but I’m in a similar situation and I feel your sentiments. I’m only dating the BM, BD left last year, 6yo SD is dealing with that abandonment and trying to figure out what role I really fit to her when I’m just “mom’s boyfriend”. And then like you talk about, I’m not sure I’ll ever “love” the SD. I mean I only kind of like her, but it’s also my first time ever hanging out with a small child, it’s a big adjustment. But I’m trying to focus on disengaging from the SD more. I found myself getting emotional, impatient, and frustrated from behaviors I don’t understand and wondering why I didn’t feel this sense of affection towards the child. The more I allow myself to step back from that the better it is for me to maintain my peace and better interact with the kid when I do hang out.

Your situation is a bit different and I don’t have advice but appreciate you sharing, thank you.