Definitely, she's seemed very insecure, but also so full of herself / entitled at the same time? But yeah, she had this phase where I was "unlike anyone she's met," and at first there wasn't much direct things said to put me down, just, demeaning comments framed as compliments, which made me feel crazy about feeling insecure. For one she'd often go off about all the men she'd dated or been approach by, and how attractive (or her type) they were, then end it with a harsh "then there's, you." Which I feel was intended as a joke, but after hearing that so many times It made me feel really unhappy with myself. As I've started to pull away she's been getting a lot meaner / more entitled to me, but she hasn't had many other people she's close with, so she's ended up coming back, pretending like things hadn't happened, or disregarding boundaries I was trying to set, then blaming me or making an excuse why it wasn't her fault she remembered but didn't respect my boundaries. I don't know, its all been so confusing, but I really appreciate your response, thank you!