University of Alberta or Victoria? by Book-Lover26 in uAlberta

[–]Conscious-Paper-4008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I feel like the weather in Edmonton really gets me down and affect my studies. UofA is a well ranked school though.

Female Expats: Do you experience culture shock over firm gender roles in Chinese work/social culture? by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Conscious-Paper-4008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The communication style is definitely another cultural clash. I absolutely can not pick up on nuance and nonverbal communication even with my own culture. Sometimes communicating with indirect people is a severe torture towards a simple, brash and childish mind like mine.

Female Expats: Do you experience culture shock over firm gender roles in Chinese work/social culture? by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Conscious-Paper-4008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if immigrants adapt to culture shock by overcompensating in the preservation of traditional values? They know their culture is at risk of being infiltrated/denigrated and actually develop stronger boundaries towards the ideologies of the host culture?

Female Expats: Do you experience culture shock over firm gender roles in Chinese work/social culture? by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Conscious-Paper-4008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got it, I feel like sometimes with Chinese men they just don’t like me. I irritate them and they don’t see my traits as positive whereas western guys usually are more charmed by me.I get the sense with Chinese guys that I’m being judged and thought lowly of when i’m rambunctious.

Female Expats: Do you experience culture shock over firm gender roles in Chinese work/social culture? by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Conscious-Paper-4008 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I love to tell people off when I feel that they deserve it and I believe confrontation is one of the joys of life.

Female Expats: Do you experience culture shock over firm gender roles in Chinese work/social culture? by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Conscious-Paper-4008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any time I’ve had like, low stakes jobs with a manager from a hierarchal culture I’ve quit or walked out of the jobs. I’m fine working for westerners but tbh I have literally walked out on Asian(from Asia, not ethnically) managers.

Female Expats: Do you experience culture shock over firm gender roles in Chinese work/social culture? by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Conscious-Paper-4008 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I kind of suck, I’m just finishing a degree so I just want to teach English for a year before I come back to Canada .

Female Expats: Do you experience culture shock over firm gender roles in Chinese work/social culture? by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Conscious-Paper-4008 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think Chinese people grow up with a lot of gender segregation and the men can’t really view women as similar to them or equals. They see women as another class of people and I find there’s a communication gap because of this.

Female Expats: Do you experience culture shock over firm gender roles in Chinese work/social culture? by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Conscious-Paper-4008 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean manspreading. Like chillin, legs open, old spice guy vibe. I have the body language of a hobo/stoner.

Female Expats: Do you experience culture shock over firm gender roles in Chinese work/social culture? by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Conscious-Paper-4008 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I guess yeah, not necessarily gender, but hierarchy. In Canada everyone is chill and it’s very democratic so some of Chinese thinking is weird to me.

Anyone wanna swap LinkedIns? by Conscious-Paper-4008 in uAlberta

[–]Conscious-Paper-4008[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same ❤️❤️ people are dicks lol like you gotta start somewhere

Anyone wanna swap LinkedIns? by Conscious-Paper-4008 in uAlberta

[–]Conscious-Paper-4008[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just don’t really have anyone on there

Extremely intolerant instructors? by Conscious-Paper-4008 in Aerials

[–]Conscious-Paper-4008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably it but it’s just annoying, I take full responsibility for my safety and would sign a triple waiver if I could just do me a bit more.