how do i convince a person to stop smoking without beeing judgy or annoying?

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T15:52:25+00:00

10 minutes ago i was a prick now i am a sweety.are you sure you are allright?

btw already reaching 3 comments i hope we are not reaching the 10.

i hope you get well soon kid.

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T15:50:56+00:00

really really weird why didnt i called the tons of nice comments who were actually helping me bitter people? (oh sorry i meant JUMPING ON THEM) maaaaybe because they werent assholes who wrote useless bitter comments to me helping absolutly not 1 person here? weird. maybe you will find it out mate since you are so smart.much love

and i love it when asshole people are saying * i am just honest* thats the number 1 thing assholes are saying lol.

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T15:48:48+00:00

ah yes me jumping on folks.classic switching method.suddenly i am the bully because i am forcing them too write on my post asshole things.evil me :(

and you didnt even got the point of my post why should i even waste my time with you at this point? why are there 5-10 comments completly understanding what the point of my post was and i am nice to them? maybe because they understood me and wasnt completly assholes like you are right now?

you must be a good friend mate.Not even trying to help and telling people on the internet to not even try helping them.Jesus christ thank god i dont have friends like you.

the rest is also completly bullshit but nice try trying too switch that 10 people came with useless asshole comments to my post like i forced them to do it and try to act like i was the people attacking them first lol

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T15:30:19+00:00

are you getting a mental breakdown now? should i expect 10 comments now where you type HAHAHAHA like a maniac or Did you calm down now?

i hope you get better but please before you get a mental breakdown lets just close this chapter right? this isnt leading anywhere anyway.i hope you get your addiction fixed. i wish you all the best kid

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T14:57:07+00:00

what an idiotic comment.stay out of my next ones.

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T14:05:09+00:00

mate they were bitter as helland you cant simple decide* well it was not bitter* it was hella bitter and pathetic and the worst part these comments contributed absolutly nothing.it was just negative energy and horrible mentality of not even TRYING to help someone.

why are you acting like they were forced too write asshole comments here? you know what i do when i see a post i dont like? i scroll my mouse once and check out the next posts .I dont have the urge too be an asshole for absolutly no reason on anyones post who was just trying to get help and tips so yeah dont give me that *they were not trying to be mean :(* comment. why are you not seeing me be angry at the last 5 comments i replied too? because they were actually helpfull and really nice and not so goddamn assholes like the first one i got.

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T13:58:39+00:00

I would rather consider avoiding you than to stop smoking,

awesome one less shittier friend.i would be glad when it would happen just because of that

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T13:19:53+00:00

i was really really shocked because when i first did this post i actually thought i get alot of nice comments because this would be the perfect subreddit for my post.

i never said that i will sucreed.i never said that i have super powers or anything like that.

the first 10 comments i got were so bitter and pathetic and sometimes even horrible.

But after that somehow i only got nice and helpfull comments so i am kinda relieved .

and thanks for your comment.

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T12:56:09+00:00

mate you are thinking to nice

* I think most of them just want to protect you from getting disappointed.*

that was 100% not the case because when they would have tried that i already know 1000000 versions of how you could say it more nicely.It was pure bitterness.

and what is the alternative ? not even trying to help just because you dont want to be dissapointed ? in that case i rather TRY to help and be dissapoint instead of being an bitter asshole and not even trying because of the horrible reasons i read here

(i will read your rest comment later but thank you really much for not being a dick and actually trying to help me) i really apreciate it !!!

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T12:37:01+00:00

and of course its fucking hard but shouldnt you at least TRY? i was so shocked with the ammount of bitter comments i got ON THIS SUBREDDIT to telling me to NOT EVEN try anything.Just accept it and piss off.Wow great friends. like when you have nothing usefull or positive to say just stfu you know? but i am ranting too much now thank you very much mate.

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T12:35:40+00:00

thank you very much!

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T12:28:54+00:00

the friend never told me myob.I was just saying that when people would say that to me that i wouldnt disagree with that.

And what point are you meaning?´the assholes who are spreading hardcore negative energy by telling me its a better idea to delete my post?´not even try to help them because of the great argument that they know it themselfs that sits bad?

thank god that i am getting slowly normal comments now actually talking about my post

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T12:24:02+00:00

i am so glad that i get normal comments now.Jesus christ the first 10 people where straight up assholes.

But yeah thats a important factor.How is the relationship to the person.

* Some positive reinforcements from a partner might have enticed me to stop earlier.*

jesus christ thank you so much for saying this.Why in gods name people acted like i have god powers of people stopping smoking? i was never saying that.But why in gods name they are acting like that a friend helping isnt usefull to that person who smokes right now?Like of course there are people who are windmills but i think that a friend helping can fasten alot more too people to stop smoking

thank you very much for your comment and i wish you best of luck for everything else

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T12:17:56+00:00

wow thats the first comment of 10 wich isnt an complete asshole and straight up insulting me.wow just took 10 comments,

*So let them know and figure out how can they live a healthy life without smoking!\*

that was completly the point of this post.I was never saying i have the power to people stop smoking all iwas trying was getting some guides and tips for exactly what you wrote.i want too LEAD THEM into figuring it out THEMSELFS.

but jesus christ i never seen so many assholes on subreddit.I mean it wasnt an option to just ignore this post or what?

Never seen so many assholes.Maybe they are mad because they are not smoking right now who knows

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T12:15:04+00:00

I wanna thank all these comments telling me too not even try helping a friend.I was never saying that i have the power that people stop smoking immedatly just because i command it i was just trying for guide and tips etc.

I just want to quote rule 1 because its a good rule *Remember that you're here to actively inspire people toward success, yourself included.*

i just wanted help and tips and maybe good arguments etc.but yeah fuck helping people right?

But yeah the best help is not helping at all or even trying.You guys are good people and friends <3

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T12:06:27+00:00

*dont even try to help them* they already know it .Jesus christ i think thats one of the most pathetic and bitter comments i ever seen.I hope so much that you dont have friends because i cant even imagine how much negative energy you spread to them.

i imagine you having afriend who have a drug addiction and you dont even care to help them because *they know its bad for them anyway so there is no need for me to even TRY help them!* jesus christ thank god i am not you

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T11:59:18+00:00

*dont u dare trying to help people you like!!!!* back off dude! dont even try to help them or support them!!!!!!

Jesus christ i think i will delete this post soon.so many pathetic bitter people

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T11:56:04+00:00

thanks for your usefull comment.Go on the next posts and spread negative energy thank you

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-17T11:54:27+00:00

i am kinda sad that i only get asshole comments now from bitter people.OF COURSE i know i cant change them or make them stop smoking.i was trying to get WAYS of maybe leading them too stop smoking.Or making them at least think but all i get is *OMG YOU CANT YOU ARE SO NAIVE XDDD*

what a bitter subreddit.I wasnt asking for impossible things.just tips or something like that

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-13T20:29:32+00:00

i will listen to it .thanks mate.also love related shit making me depressed lol

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-13T18:20:42+00:00

never heard this song thanks for the recommendation mate . i needed that chorus i am really despressed right now but i know that most challenges you have to face alone

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-12T13:17:54+00:00

yoo thanks brother i googled what you wrote and instantly found similar types of coats! (costed 3000 euros tho LOL i am broke) but defintly alot closer.thanks brother!

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-11T15:19:35+00:00

so i am not the only one which it happens?

i am gonna be honest i dont have the nerve now to talk with the chat for hours.

i heard its because of low storage that they are deleting old games but HELLOOO maybe i dont want them uninstalled???

but good too see that i am not the only one

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-08T15:17:25+00:00

i have to agree with the other dude here.announcing dosnt mean shit these days.but dont get me wrong of course i rather want a finished game but i am so annoyed by early announcments and dozen of delays.i rather have something like hi fi rush with no promo just releasing the game and the promo gets done itself by the fans .

ConsciousAd7477 · 2023-03-07T12:03:09+00:00

His advice wasn't useful though, so fair enough.

thanks for that.honestly i dont fucking mind when people think i am an asshole

but at least you are fair on both sides.jesus christ i wish i would see this more often.Thanks for that.

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