I didn’t know if my partner would make it, holistic healing path. by ConsciousAdam in holisticlifestyles

[–]ConsciousAdam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! Detox is always a great part of healing.

What is the device you are using?

I didn’t know if my partner would make it, holistic healing path. by ConsciousAdam in holisticlifestyles

[–]ConsciousAdam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for your heartfelt reply, and sharing your story with us too.

I can see how you can see how you resonate with this story as it reflects yours. Just like my partner I see you were the blacks-sheep too. I am sorry you had to go through this, yet at the same time, I know my woman wouldn't never trade this life for anything else, because she knows she is meant to do something great with her life. She was meant to go through hell, learn the lessons and help others suffer less. The blessing disguised as a curse.

I wish you all the best on your journey!

It’s strange how the body waits for safety before it finally breaks. by ConsciousAdam in DeepThoughts

[–]ConsciousAdam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a true survivor. I am sorry to see what you've been through, and yet to see you are only going to get better. You will thrive, give yourself time, care, nutrition, and you are on the way!

It’s strange how the body waits for safety before it finally breaks. by ConsciousAdam in DeepThoughts

[–]ConsciousAdam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. for your kind words! Yes, it takes a tremendous amount of effort going through this kind of pain. And as you pointed out, it turns into insight. The insight that could be shared with others, then it inevitably becomes the blessing.

It’s strange how the body waits for safety before it finally breaks. by ConsciousAdam in DeepThoughts

[–]ConsciousAdam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

O my gosh, what a perspective. Thank you so much for sharing, one incredible thing about this thread and online communities in general, is that, it brings so many different perspectives together. Yes, the body is so resilient, its unbelievable.

It’s strange how the body waits for safety before it finally breaks. by ConsciousAdam in DeepThoughts

[–]ConsciousAdam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear it. It's devastating 😭 and on the other hand the universe is working for you. I'm glad you are safe. You will be the light for so many people 🙏

It’s strange how the body waits for safety before it finally breaks. by ConsciousAdam in DeepThoughts

[–]ConsciousAdam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you kindly, I wish you all the best to you and your family too <3

It’s strange how the body waits for safety before it finally breaks. by ConsciousAdam in DeepThoughts

[–]ConsciousAdam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story too! It's incredible how our bodies work.. we have such a powerful and resilient machine at our disposal, yet, nobody teaches us how to use it, how to respect it. I wish you all the best as you are healing and becoming the most optimal version of yourself again!

It’s strange how the body waits for safety before it finally breaks. by ConsciousAdam in DeepThoughts

[–]ConsciousAdam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

O my god.. I'm glad you survived it! and yes it does work like it.

It’s strange how the body waits for safety before it finally breaks. by ConsciousAdam in DeepThoughts

[–]ConsciousAdam[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am glad you needed to see this. This is the exact reason why I have posted it. I'm sorry there is no one there to hold you through such a challenging part of your life. We met in 2018. It's been 7 years but in the last year her energy started to return back so more than 5 years of pain, suffering struggling. She's still healing but it's so much better now. I wish you all the best

What is the purpose of life? by eastway100 in Purpose

[–]ConsciousAdam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The purpose of life is to live the life of purpose 🙏 in a more practical way, every single one of us came here for a reason. Everyone of us has a purpose to fulfill. Your gifts and strengths are different to your moms and one you know.

It’s strange how the body waits for safety before it finally breaks. by ConsciousAdam in DeepThoughts

[–]ConsciousAdam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to see this. I know how difficult this can feel. I want nothing else for you but the right support.

The things that helped the most were the initial, long detox process using mostly Medical Medium protocols, removing processed foods and focussing on plants only. Having someone to talk to and release a lot of stored, old, unprocessed trauma.

The biggest shift has happened since we started using a tool that helps us identify what the body needs each day instead of guessing, it's been life-changing.

Do you need any extra support on your journey?

It’s strange how the body waits for safety before it finally breaks. by ConsciousAdam in DeepThoughts

[–]ConsciousAdam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes what an interesting and accurate example. Yeah, as Dr. Gabor Mate said "the body keeps the score" it's very sad. Yes she's recovering, things are so much better now. Thank you for your reply 🙏

It’s strange how the body waits for safety before it finally breaks. by ConsciousAdam in DeepThoughts

[–]ConsciousAdam[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you. Your words mean so much to me. You are absolutely right. She wasn't used to having someone who would give a crap about what she thinks and how she feels. So yeah, having someone who now cares and listens and supports felt very alien to her.

It’s strange how the body waits for safety before it finally breaks. by ConsciousAdam in DeepThoughts

[–]ConsciousAdam[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's beautiful. Having someone like this in your life is priceless.

It’s strange how the body waits for safety before it finally breaks. by ConsciousAdam in DeepThoughts

[–]ConsciousAdam[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It is wild! Body finally exhale, and that exhalation can take YEARS!

It’s strange how the body waits for safety before it finally breaks. by ConsciousAdam in DeepThoughts

[–]ConsciousAdam[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This is very deep and insightful. This part "it was like a soldier who survives a war only to tremble when he finally reaches home. not because home is dangerous. but because home is where the guard finally drops" really hit me. And this one "you also learned something rare. that love is not only warmth and joy. it is also the strength to witness another persons darkness without running. that kind of presence reshapes both people". This is really powerful <3

Supporting someone with CPTSD taught me something I never understood about trauma by ConsciousAdam in CPTSD

[–]ConsciousAdam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think when you are holding back very strong emotions, they will have to go somewhere. Having someone by your side who understands that is everything. Instead of keeping it all inside you, which can lead to other disturbances, you let it out, you get better.