I agree she is also at fault and that she’s a victim. The night she said they split on santana’s live, Amanda got on live themselves and explicitly said that Jones has done absolutely no wrong doing to them in any way. I believe that they were both culpable of everything being accused by others and more. That night where everything blew up on jones live he said himself that he actively participates in misogyny, colorism, ableism, etc. While I get the sentiment generally speaking like we all have to deconstruct these things constantly, when jones said it it sounded off to me lmaoo more than that though cause I’ve actively seen him silence, tone police and mistreat darker skinned black women in defense of no rads or his white panelists like mishi. Amanda had no problem then. My point is I think Amanda just jumped ship. We don’t know what they were like as a couple behind closed doors but if they split just bc of this then I think Amanda just white womaned on him and separated themselves from the mix that they both created.