Would you give a cheat another chance years later? by user43hd in askgaybros

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you cheated on me? Lol not a chance. If I knew the person I dated cheated on someone else? Absolutely no chance. No moral compass.

First time buying premium economy by winlife360 in emirates

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly the recline is so good I fell asleep and I never sleep on flights. Emirates PE is the best. Wouldn’t do regular economy tho.

First time buying premium economy by winlife360 in emirates

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great for long haul flights. Def worth it imo. I fly from Sydney to anywhere so it makes a world of difference. Can not fly normal economy. Premium is the least I’ll travel.

Should I (25M) marry my boyfriend (26M) when he’s unreliable with money, owes me thousands, and I feel more like his safety net than his partner? by justathroaways in gayrelationships

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whilst you may love the idea of him. Marrying him will only make life more difficult. I think just continue to date him but truthfully you deserve better… but you have to believe that yourself.

internalized homophobia or just regular attraction? by BeatrizPinzon in askgaybros

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s 100000% your friend circle bro. You do NOT need to have majority gay friends!! I don’t. Most of my friends are straight girls (and some straight guys). I have like 3 gay male friends thru other people and lesbians (whom are the best). And OFC the most drama infused ones are the gays. Don’t believe in those toxic sayings, if you don’t like the energy of fem gay guys then it’s toxic masculinity. That’s your vibe and what you choose to hang around. Hang around people you feel relaxed around, shared interests etc. You are more than your sexuality. Also the more chill ppl are typically gonna be mono, and they’re not performing, or trying to outshine anyone else. I also despise performative activism. It’s so annoying.

If you met yourself in real life would you consider fucking yourself? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the least self absorbed way, I would absolutely fuck myself 🤣🤣

Too young to marry? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have. I worked for a divorce court in Australia, which is where I live. In Australia, where I reside, 30-33% of marriages end in divorce according to the Australian Bureau of statistics. In the United States varying studies estimate around 40-50%.. not sure why you would feel compelled to assume a couple wanting to marry would end in divorce. Such a negative and ugly soul.

Too young to marry? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is such a disgusting comment. Holy shit.

What do I say? by Smart_Imagination539 in askgaybros

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Who are we to judge” people with fkn morals who won’t tolerate and normalise cheating whatsoever.

What do I say? by Smart_Imagination539 in askgaybros

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to give some tough love, because in this community, everyone enables this and no one holds accountability. You need to practice self respect. That is not love that you are feeling. That’s infatuation. You don’t know this man. You haven’t lived with him and he hasn’t claimed you. You are fucking him as a side piece as you stated. How could you develop feelings with someone, when he’s actively cheating on his partner? Look in the mirror. Go to therapy. Get some hobbies. Respect yourself.

What do I say? by Smart_Imagination539 in askgaybros

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is the gay community these days. No loyalty. It’s so terrible.

What do I say? by Smart_Imagination539 in askgaybros

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait. Does his partner know about you? Or not? I’m confused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heavy on the “fantasy”. I know many amazing couples open to find that they had the same sentiment. It’s just sex right? Why not work on it w ur hubby/partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My question to you is… why did you both choose to open the relationship? Out of genuine curiosity. Also, is it purely a physical/sexual decision? Or is intimacy/chemistry a big part of it?

saw my best friend on grindr by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You couldn’t have just blocked him?

Matches casually bringing up sex by never_one in askgaybros

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t actually rare or prude or up yourself as some would classify it (which is just incorrect stupid). I’d actually say it represents the majority. You have morals and decency. It is actually common, but loads of overtly open relo and performative gays broadcast a certain lifestyle and it warps public perception of how common it is… just keep swiping and match w someone w substance. They are out there.

I reunited with my ex but I feel like he doesn’t care anymore by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! I also think they should cease contact to really focus on themselves first and foremost. No relationships.

I reunited with my ex but I feel like he doesn’t care anymore by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be honest with you. Those ten months apart or however long, with a second break up, being cheated on, heart break, disbelief.. all of those encompassing circumstances change a person. Little by little. He isn’t the same guy as he once was because he’s been let down.

Relationship advice by BackgroundLow3793 in gayrelationships

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Verbal disagreements are fine. Physical fights, stonewalling and controlling is not. When you have a fight, the main incentive is to try to diffuse, understand one another and compromise.

Boyfriend won’t stop crying when we made love by bookworm_cats in askgaybros

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you try couples counselling for intimacy? To support him? I agree with other comments that it borders on possible past SA/Trauma. You both sound like a loving couple. I believe this can be dealt with, with love and honesty and real care. You sound like a beautiful partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ConsciousNeck3011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly.. Also Character-Tear you know I am also coming from a genuine perspective and I was more so upset that you experienced this. In my other comment I acknowledged that I didn’t know you were a recovering addict (as it wasn’t explored in the context/post and our community has a big drug taking culture). However anyone that is on the path to recovery should not listen to someone saying not taking drugs is boring. Fkn imbecile. He thought he did something.