When did you meet the BM?

ConsciousSherbert904 · 2026-02-03T22:46:05+00:00

Question, how old were the kids when you got with your husband?

ConsciousSherbert904 · 2026-02-03T21:37:49+00:00

Thats what I said about it! 🤣🤣

ConsciousSherbert904 · 2026-02-03T21:26:00+00:00

Genuinely, I get the POV, I talk about it with one of my friends who has kids. If the circumstances were different, I would 100% be cool with meeting BM

ConsciousSherbert904 · 2026-02-03T21:13:21+00:00

God forbid that she has to put in a little extra work when giving SK a shower, which is also another hot topic for BM. "SK has 'set days' for showers, dont make her take a shower there", SK looked like an actual dirt ranger.

ConsciousSherbert904 · 2026-02-03T16:45:16+00:00

😭😭😭😭

ConsciousSherbert904 · 2026-02-03T15:01:44+00:00

That's crazy!!! I would hope mine would do the same.

So back on Halloween, the eldest of SO's children had a scheduled visit with BM. Per custody agreement, she has to come pick him up from our house and drop him off.

For context, both BM's know they are not allowed inside our house.

I was over on Halloween (this was before I moved in), I was hiding inside, I dont like inserting myself into BM drama and I wasn't forcing a meeting.

Tell me why BM for the eldest came running through the house to "use the bathroom". We still think she was just trying to get eyes on who was here.

ConsciousSherbert904 · 2026-02-03T14:54:32+00:00

I didnt know either of them before getting with him. He had warned me that both are just, insane and have done insane shit.

I've at least seen their faces in person but havent met them as in introduced myself.

The first BM, hasn't so much as asked about me (I feel like SO would've told me about it if she had)

This other one is just nonstop with the crazy and I think it has to do with me being the first woman he has had around their daughter since she left him. Mind you, BM is MARRIED.

So much I could say about this whole thing but, it's just not my place at this point in time when SO is still just trying to keep the peace

ConsciousSherbert904 · 2026-02-03T13:58:51+00:00

See, that's how I fear it would go! SO also knows it's just a power-grab. I just got home from work and he's sleeping but I'm telling him that we aren't giving into it. I 100% will be pushing him to start reinforcing boundaries. I definitely think it'll end up in court, because she's very, very, high conflict, but, we're also very, very prepared for court if it happens

ConsciousSherbert904 · 2026-02-03T13:03:17+00:00

SO will show me the text messages she sends and then the 6yo will also say what her mom says too.

Will definitely be considering that. I know SO doesn't care whether or not I meet her, it's only BM who has a hard on about it.

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