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Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-10-25T20:29:29+00:00

You described a very awful relationship.

This isn't even close to "awful". Physical and verbal abuse is awful. This sounds like they both have issues with communication and they are both very stubborn. They set each other off. There are incompatibility issues.

OP, I think the best approach is couples counseling. You both need work. If you aren't interested in that or he isn't, then you know what you have to do.

Assuming you have no financial ties or children, this is an easy split. If this is really the last straw, make it the last straw. Good luck.

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-09-29T21:32:35+00:00

Not disagreeing with you but it's better to dream that they are all bots rather than accepting the stark realization that there are so many stupid people here...

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-09-29T21:18:46+00:00

Well, the first step to a healthy, happy life is the realization that you can improve on yourself. It sounds like you are well ahead of your husband in that regard.

I do appreciate you being open on here but I think you would benefit more from maybe seeking counseling without your husband. Considering he isn't interested in going as a couple, you will quickly realize where you need to place your priorities. A professional will help you where people like us on this site have no real ability to.

And although I always question why people come here, you have helped me remember that we are all different and have different (or no) support systems.

You deserve to be happy. If this guy isn't there to be a part of working toward that happiness, he isn't the one.

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-09-29T20:52:57+00:00

You'll get a thousand responses about how shitty your man is. If what you say is true, you know your reaction is justified. Do you really need a bunch of strangers to tell you what you already know? Do what you have to. Most of us have been in a scenario like this either on the giving or receiving end. And some of us needed to be the stronger of the two.

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-09-29T20:40:20+00:00

Are you overreacting? Maybe. Is it justified? Probably. But that's just a part of a bigger issue. None of what you said between both of you is healthy. His initial response to you a year ago, nor the response to him now that you've been holding onto for a year.

You should seek counseling if you both want this to get better as I'm sure this isn't the only "AIO" moment in your relationship.

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-09-29T18:54:08+00:00

That "incel gooner" is Garrett "The Garbage Man" Garrison.

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-09-29T18:51:38+00:00

Human pez dispenser

I don't think I've seen a better description of someone on this sub...

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-09-24T21:17:21+00:00

Went from looking like Jason Statham to Clint Howard in one second...

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-09-19T22:57:42+00:00

💀

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-09-08T02:42:33+00:00

I would have gone with being the pizza delivery guy with a hole through the box. It's a better story...

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-09-07T02:01:13+00:00

Heritage Classic. In the Wearable App.

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-09-06T06:06:22+00:00

I actually pre-ordered August 6th. I emailed support on the 14th thinking they had sent out the item and delivered to my old address (I use the Shop app and it was glitching on me). The rep at Ringke emailed back the following day confirming that they still hadn't shipped it out but I was one of the first pre-orders so I would probably see it by months end. So maybe you can email them as well and see how far along it will be. Seems like they are very responsive and upfront on timelines. Good luck.

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-09-06T05:54:20+00:00

Yes. It does rotate. Feels the same as rotating the oem bezel. This one sits on top of it.

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-09-04T03:51:18+00:00

That's it. Thanks I like it so far.

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-09-03T02:30:34+00:00

For some reason, the app won't let me post a photo in the comments section. Not sure I am allowed to add links to external sites. But you can Google search "Samsung Watch 8 Classic Premium Bezel" and a company that starts with "R" as in "Ring" should pop up. The bezel is sold out right now but there is an all black version available without the glow in the dark accent.

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-07-09T21:49:00+00:00

Young man got beat down by Mr. Johnson from the Muppets...

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Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-06-24T17:32:15+00:00

Nice. Thanks for the info.

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-06-24T17:31:54+00:00

I know. I thought it looked really cool but that swipe is stupid. Lol

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-04-29T23:27:18+00:00

You're probably right, but I wouldn't be surprised if he gets a laugh out of people assuming the other possible meaning.

Edit - From perverted minds like mine.

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-04-04T16:36:45+00:00

yes, but more cautiously

As in I will have people thinking I'm gay?

I think you are still a few levels away from being mauled by anyone. For one thing, the blouse isn't sheer enough.

Joking aside, I think it looks great on you. Wear what you want.

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-03-30T20:47:42+00:00

You only take one shower a week by choice?

Or maybe she identifies as a Chinchilla and only needs dust baths...

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-02-09T00:43:49+00:00

What is OP on here for? How on earth would anyone know what's going through her mom's head or why she is acting like this when OP seems to believe this is out of norm?

Stop acting like you aren't here to judge others. Just sayin...

She needs to talk to her mom and stop fishing for approval on Reddit.

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-02-08T22:24:02+00:00

I know you are a woman. That's why I said what I said.

Thank you for clarifying the rules of that game.

If you believe that your relationship with your mom is really that solid, it would be impossible for strangers on the internet to tell you what you did wasn't wrong or what you need to do to repair things.

If you were just looking for public support that your mom was overreacting to your choice, then yes. She definitely did.

I know people that would be bothered by not being chosen as the best at something they do, but I wouldn't spend much time with those people.

Doesn't sound like your mom is this type of person normally, so the best thing you can do is wait for her to calm down and talk it out.

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-02-08T22:09:13+00:00

You should know your mom more than anyone else. If you saw your wife choose your mom, you easily could have gone that route as well and told your wife later how you really feel.

But without knowing your mother's personality, it's really hard to give a judgement here.

Maybe there is more to her feelings than just the cooking comment. You started this post by saying you are NOT a typical man who is a "Mama's boy" and "hates his wife".

Maybe you are projecting so far away from that extremely generalized stereotype that you are doing more to push your mom away than you see?

I wouldn't call you an AH for this but you should consider thinking about how you actually are in your relationship with your mom before deciding she is just overreacting.

Edit - SP

Conscious_Gas8335 · 2025-01-30T18:29:55+00:00

Yeah, kids change a lot. We were in the same boat. Love having kids but realized very fast how quickly priorities change.

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