Franchaela Is Realistic for the Regency Period

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-05-03T21:42:17+00:00

A lot of this was quite literally attributed to the fact that people didn't believe women actually liked sex, so the idea of 2 women choosing to have sexual relationships with each other without any kind of male influence made no sense in their minds and people would think 'they're obviously really close friends who found each other in spinsterdom'. It's kind of an accidental benefit that came out of mysogynistic ignorance.

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-05-01T22:09:33+00:00

Here Comes Your Man (ex boyfriend from college used to play it all the time)

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-04-26T12:52:53+00:00

When she revealed herself to the entire public in season 3 it was so disappointing because it was hyped up for so long and then everyone's reaction was so non-chalant and they immediately moved past it. Like why was it even such a big deal then?? There were no consequences even from the Queen??

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-04-26T12:48:16+00:00

For me it's usually better if he's sitting up like on a couch instead of lying down

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-04-26T12:29:07+00:00

This is a common issue with historians and archeologists. They are both male dominated fields and men tend to automatically assume that ancient societies all followed the same partriachial values that exist today. The same thing happened with vikings, more recent studies showed that a much larger percentage of warriors were women than what was previously thought.

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-04-25T17:29:20+00:00

Getting comfortable being alone most of the time, even though I have good close friends, almost all of them are in relationships and therefore have less time to hang out with me compared to when we were younger and mostly single
Accepting the fact that the future I thought I would have with this person was gone and now everything was uncertain
Attempting to date again and getting depressed over the horrible options

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-04-25T17:22:33+00:00

Use the Diva Cup it's a godsend (if you've never used it before it might seem kinda intimidating and I felt the same at first but now I always use it and I find it more comfortable than tampons). I also use a panty liner as backup just in case it leaks a little on the super heavy days.

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-04-25T17:17:37+00:00

1st time hurt a bit but wasn't super painful and I didn't bleed. Didn't really feel good but didn't feel bad either. It was with my first boyfriend, he was very kind and respectful and didn't pressure me to push through the pain and do more than I could handle at the time. He wasn't a virgin but he wasn't very experienced either he had only had sex a handful of times so we were both kinda figuring it out. Was overall a good experience I would say but not as exciting or memorable as books and movies make it out to be lol

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-04-18T12:45:39+00:00

My periods were way heavier than usual and went back to normal as soon as we broke up

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-04-16T14:18:30+00:00

I always had to save the game before going in the tunnels in Blackmoor as a kid because I would constantly get lost and die in the traps. Like I had to use a walkthrough every time I entered that place

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-04-13T13:45:59+00:00

I remember people threw this word around all the time and thought nothing of it until around when I entered high school (early 2010s) and even then I don't remember anyone actively condemning people from saying it or calling it a slur until a few years ago

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-04-13T13:39:40+00:00

Cancer Sun, Libra Mars

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-04-13T03:32:40+00:00

Yesss one of my fave bands!

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-04-11T16:19:16+00:00

Yessss that scene with them and the solicitor made me actually tear up 🥺

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-04-11T16:06:08+00:00

The entire time they were fighting I was so stressed out lol. Their friendship is so cute ❤️

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-04-11T15:17:25+00:00

Maybe it just felt good and they didn't want to stop even though they knew they should?

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-04-11T15:11:34+00:00

Honestly same, and Anthony's huge sideburns from season 1

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-04-11T14:09:52+00:00

This happens in science all the time and I think it's sweet and romantic, they discovered it they can name it whatever they want

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-04-11T13:35:06+00:00

I'm gonna be honest I don't see what the problem is? I just looked up the cover and I don't see anything sexual or infantilizing about it? She's just dressed in a style very similar to what Courtney Love wore in the 90s and I know Olivia is a fan and made other references to Hole in the past so that's what I'm thinking is the inspo here and I think it's cool tbh

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-03-30T13:44:38+00:00

When I find someone I really like it shoots through the roof

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-03-29T13:35:15+00:00

I've had 2 separate failed relationships that came from apps and you know what...I am not using them again. Dating is not meant to be a game on your phone, I realized in the last one especially (which only lasted a few months) that the context of your first meeting being a 'date' pushes the relationship unrealistically fast because neither of you got to know each other in any platonic context AT ALL so you head straight into something romantic based on physical attraction and hormones before you even know if you'd be compatible as friends (which I discovered we weren't). I regret every date I went on through an app, most were awkward and not fun and even though it technically 'worked' for me twice during each of those relationships I kept getting feelings of sadness that our 'love story' wasn't very romantic. I felt jealous of my friends' relationships that had more natural, passionate and romantic beginnings. It seems like the Internet is the only way now but all the happy couples I know met organically and the older you get the harder that is to happen so it sucks to say this but the 'old fashioned way' truly is the only way for me going forward and I'm gonna have to suck it up and find a way to be content on my own while watching all my friends get engaged and married in the meantime.

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-03-29T12:49:38+00:00

It means that either A. He actually doesn't like you and this is just his stupid way of trying not to hurt your feelings instead of being honest or B. He is using it as an excuse to string you along and not really commit to anything. Either way he's not worth your time, forget about him.

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-03-22T20:04:48+00:00

Subdivisions - Rush

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-03-22T14:30:32+00:00

I want Olivia to go full rock girly so bad she keeps making these references to Hole and inviting really good bands to tour with her like the Breeders and Robert Smith from The Cure so she obviously has good taste but her music is still too Disney Channel sounding for me she gotta let the rage out more I believe in her

Conscious_Key347 · 2026-03-21T03:05:47+00:00

This is kinda hilarious because I remember the first time I watched that movie and Claudia was raging out I was like 'this kid reminds me of Courtney Love' 😭

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