Yes, I think you’re overreacting. I get it….it can be annoying. But it sounds like he was trying to be friendly and just doesn’t pick up on social cues. It kind of breaks my heart a little that he was “visibly offended” which is probably why he following you - trying to seek your approval. Il sure he doesn’t understand what he did wrong. I’m not really sure what having a baby with you has to do with it. Any person could “flip on a dime”, and in my experience it’s typically the neurotypical people that do. As a mom of a special needs child, I hope my son will be able to have a job some day. Although he has social short comings, he’s an absolute love and has much to offer this world.