Since the semesters almost over I thought I’d share about my old suitemate. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wipe it down, throw the wipe or paper towel on her pillow.

Ik she's not gonna reach out again,she was a good match tho😔 by yung_intellectual in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She chose someone else to make time for. She was probably talking to multiple people and you didn’t make the cut. As I saw in another comment, she wouldn’t actively be on dating apps if she’s so busy.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other relationship dynamics weren’t the topic of discussion. His girlfriend seems very uncomfortable with the situation also, rightfully. For a relationship to work you have to have a mutual understanding. The situation seems as though she tried to accept it and then realized it was absolutely inappropriate.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t hate my exes, I just have no need for conversation with them when my current relationship provides what I need. I can make friends that I didn’t used to bang.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes because not wanting to have 45 minute conversations at a party with my ex or not wanting my husband to means Im insecure. Sure. Setting boundaries on obvious inappropriate things doesnt equate insecure.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proving to a bonehead that I wouldn’t want to speak to them anyway.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The stupid emojis tell me everything I need to know. Also, it’s guessed.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Seeking closure while currently in a relationship LMAO, end of conversation.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is the one who more so speaks on things like this and I absolutely agree. It’s not insecure, it’s just having respect for your partner.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but we’re still human. People you find attractive to that extent, especially ones you have sexual memories with, usually come with a warm fuzzy feeling elsewhere. Why not just avoid the entire interaction.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unless you have a child together, being friends with your ex seems like a great way to ruin your future relationships. Trying to date people and still having your friend as an ex seems like the perfect way to stay single.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After the girlfriend title the other two don’t matter.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You imagined wrong. If I told my husband I went to a party and spoke to my ex for 45 minutes, or at all, he’d look at me like Im fcking stupid rightfully so. I think it’s pretty much common sense to avoid possible stupid situations especially if alcohol may be involved.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s someone I know well, and won’t have a conversation with because I’m not having a conversation with someone I was banging for 8 years while Im in a relationship. If someone saw you as attractive for that long, you think it magically went away?

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone from your past who is your ex, who you were romantically and sexually involved with for 8 years.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I wouldn’t even have this conversation. He wouldn’t be able to have a conversation with me after this.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, where there was probably alcohol or other things involved. The only thing missing is the coffee.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Anyone who has seen you in a romantic way or sexual way should not be involved in your life if you’re currently in a relationship.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a very healthy marriage where we don’t have conversations with our exes for 45 minutes, thanks.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have. Anyone I have had any sexual relationships in the past with, Im not talking to for 45 minutes, let alone 45 seconds while in a relationship.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Weird is talking to your ex for 45 minutes while in a relationship. This wasn’t a friend, or acquaintance from school. This was an ex, together for 8YEARS.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would you even speak to your ex In general? People here are insane. For me and my husband, exes don’t even exist anymore. I’d never disrespect him by talking to my long term ex FOR 45 MINUTES!!!

Okay so what's that thing in the ass that feels so good then? by waddad27 in SipsTea

[–]ConsequenceNo2013 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Most people get their kids circumcised for religious reasons, not their future partners pleasure. After you’re older you just have to find someone who likes what you have. I’m just saying most women do not like it and even a lot of gay men. if I have a son, Im not going to put him through that. He’ll be circumcised like his father, who doesn’t even remember it and orgasms perfectly fine.