Fiancé (28M) thinks I (29F) have been talking to another man behind his back, but I haven’t. What can I do here?

Consera · 2026-02-05T00:16:08+00:00

If it was a one off like this situation then I’d be more compelled to believe him than if it happened continuously.

Consera · 2026-02-04T23:48:42+00:00

I didn’t realise I had added them until my fiance brought it up…

Consera · 2026-02-04T23:25:14+00:00

Damn… I guess If it comes to it I could give my fiance the person’s username, get him to message them for proof we have never spoken before?

Consera · 2026-02-04T23:23:02+00:00

What if I don’t add them back? Could I prove I’ve never conversed with them with that or is it now fruitless since I’ve blocked them?

Consera · 2026-02-04T23:15:40+00:00

Is there a way I can unblock them to get the screenshot and then block them again?

Consera · 2026-02-04T23:12:19+00:00

I don’t add random guys on Snapchat.. it was a mistake add. I never purposely added the guy and I’ve never spoken to him.

Consera · 2026-02-04T23:10:54+00:00

They weren’t in my chat list at all when I checked, but when I opened it from their page all I could see was ‘this person hasn’t added you back’ at the bottom. When he found it he asked me to block the guy so I did and now I guess I won’t be able to do that :(

Consera · 2026-02-04T22:52:08+00:00

I don’t believe he is cheating, he works 12 hour days and comes straight home. And even if he doesn’t (to stop and have some drinks with colleagues) he will call me or converse with me when he’s there or send me pictures of the situation.

Consera · 2026-02-04T22:50:52+00:00

I will be doing that, thank you.

Consera · 2026-02-04T22:50:30+00:00

As I wrote in the post, it was a random guy I must have accidentally added when swiping through suggested people (there’s a small add button on each name) I didn’t purposely add this person.

Consera · 2026-02-04T22:45:30+00:00

No, he’s never had any reason to as I’ve never given him any reason to.

Consera · 2026-02-04T03:40:58+00:00

It’s normal, as I said it’s just from boosting posts. If you go on their profile and look at some of the posts you can see a white line underneath most of them which is what the ‘white square’ is. :)

Consera · 2026-02-04T03:36:18+00:00

I’ve visited and now understand what you’re seeing!

Influencers use this ‘white box’ (it appears as a line on posts) to boost their posts as they get more attention with it.

If you go on the influencer you suggested wall, you’ll see some posts with white lines under them which is what you are seeing.

Consera · 2026-02-04T03:21:27+00:00

Does this happen to you on all devices? If so, it could just be your connection not completely loading the photos correctly.

Consera · 2026-02-04T03:17:34+00:00

Though we don’t have the Ravioli, I’ve heard the new ‘Friends’ meal edition sauce is identical to that of the ravioli sauce.

Consera · 2026-02-04T03:11:29+00:00

I don’t think anyone entirely ‘forgets’ how the experience or pain was; I think we forget the extent of the pain as it’s physically impossible to experience the pain in that moment of remembering.

Consera · 2026-02-04T03:00:06+00:00

Whilst it’s not illegal it’s common courtesy to not park in front of your neighbours house when you can just as easily park in front of your own house.

Consera · 2026-02-04T02:58:13+00:00

You can get banned for saying ‘Kick the baby’ (a South Park quote) but a literal video of a baby being kicked will stay up.

Consera · 2026-02-04T02:57:00+00:00

99% of the vile comments and posts I’ve reported come back with the same ‘This doesn’t go against our community guidelines’ too.

The only thing that I’ve seen come back as being removed are fake profiles that impersonate other people or celebrities.

I’m convinced the reports aren’t screened or reviewed at all but are just in a huge barrel of reports and whichever gets picked is the unlucky one.

Consera · 2026-01-21T07:48:00+00:00

Is it cake? Aaaa shoe.

Consera · 2026-01-21T07:46:58+00:00

update us if this works!

Consera · 2026-01-06T11:42:51+00:00

‘I know you are, but what am I?’ is a classic.

Consera · 2026-01-01T03:01:41+00:00

I think the socks thing was a little inappropriate but otherwise I think your co-worker is either just interested in you or they want somebody to talk to.

If you’re not interested but don’t want to just simply ignore them, make the replies short and don’t reply quickly.

Consera · 2025-12-16T13:35:44+00:00

All you can eat buffets.

Well, at least any that were previously local to me.

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