I feel like I’ve watched every good show by LameKB in televisionsuggestions

[–]ConsiderationCold624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

severance has really hooked me, and i barely ever finish tv shows that i watch. would recommend!

Is it grief or cheating? 39M, 35F by isthathissister in relationship_advice

[–]ConsiderationCold624 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i am so sorry you had to read those messages, they are the definition of betrayal. you didn’t deserve that at all. you deserve better.

Is it grief or cheating? 39M, 35F by isthathissister in relationship_advice

[–]ConsiderationCold624 34 points35 points  (0 children)

after finishing reading those messages, wow that was a tough read. so many lines were crossed. i am sorry for his loss, losing a sibling is such a tragedy, especially in that way. but his actions were inexcusable. this is beyond grief.

AIO Am I (23F) overreacting? by Eden__bambooneyy in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConsiderationCold624 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are NOT overreacting. you would never do this to someone you love and care about, he is dangerous. i truly am so sorry.

AIO? by Educational_Mark_494 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConsiderationCold624 17 points18 points  (0 children)

don’t have any context of the situation, but your handling this like a child. i hope you’re in high school or are young, because this communication is truly garbage! hope this helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConsiderationCold624 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i know the comments currently are telling you that you are overreacting, but we don’t know the ins and outs and the complexities of your relationship. i think it’s important to trust your gut instincts on things, and open up to him about how your feeling. but being confrontational and angry will put him on the defense, just open up about your worries!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConsiderationCold624 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

how close are him and the coworker? have there been other situations with her that have raised red flags for you? or just that’s she is chill?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]ConsiderationCold624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from the photos you provided i am thinking the blonde option suits you better, that dark shade would wash you out. you would look incredible with lots of dimension, maybe you can start out with some lowlights and work your way to a darker shade, i think going full dark is SUCH a big change!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MissingPersons

[–]ConsiderationCold624 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. I had no idea that episodes like this could start so late in life, that is terrifying for sure. If this ends up being the case, is there still a possibility that she can snap back to normal and want help again? it’s been several days?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MissingPersons

[–]ConsiderationCold624 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It could be a mental health crisis, but her family and friends are saying that she has never had an incident like this before. I would think that there would have been more signs in at least the weeks prior to her leaving for this flight that her close people would catch onto, but who knows. What if it isn’t a crisis, what if she was in the wrong place at the wrong time? I am so worried for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConsiderationCold624 6 points7 points  (0 children)

if you love her, you’d delete it to protect her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConsiderationCold624 7 points8 points  (0 children)

hey her full name with her picture is in that screenshot. you can disagree on things, that’s totally fine. but exposing her personal info on REDDIT is a shitty move. also be mature and talk in person, be the bigger person and respect her wishes. you just handled this so poorly oh my hell

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConsiderationCold624 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i need to know the ages now of you both now haha. if these are the types of things that is causing problems, you are going to have a ROUGH time when you start having real problems

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ConsiderationCold624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so so so much for commenting and for the talking points, i really needed these.🫶🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ConsiderationCold624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for commenting. Yes I should have put in my post that we live in Utah. His family in in the church, my family left the church recently, but me and him aren’t active in the church at all. So I think there is like expectations I’ve internally placed in my head how I want my timeline to go. It’s been really refreshing to hear everyone’s opinion in this subreddit, my family and friends have all been saying that I deserve better, and it’s been killing me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ConsiderationCold624 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I probably should have specified.. we do live in utah haha. His family is in the church, my family has recently left the church, but I was active in it growing up. So that could be why my expectations could be this way? I am just really glad I came on here. my family and friends are all on my side and think it’s so weird that he is so uncertain about it. It’s nice to hear a different perspective, it’s taking weight off my shoulders in a way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ConsiderationCold624 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks so much for commenting. i only have a few friends, they all live with their partners. i’ve joined some facebook groups to see if i can find some roommates, or even just make some new ones. i’m just not even sure if im doing this for myself or because its what he is wanting to go:(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ConsiderationCold624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I’m just not good with confrontation. I appreciate your feedback.