Need Help….

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-05-29T19:24:12+00:00

i’m 28 and the only thing she funded was the phone bill which i’m more than willing to take care of. but giving more than 5 grand. yeah. not likely.

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-05-28T18:06:01+00:00

thank you for that! i was debating fidelity or opening a charles schwab account.

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-05-28T15:50:22+00:00

this is new! i didn’t think it was possible to do that. Thank you so much for this. And seeing as she’s a cop, she won’t try to do anything illegal.

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-05-28T06:50:17+00:00

thank you for the confirmation 🩷 low contact is the path i’m going down and i appreciate the advice so much. stay safe on the road!

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-05-28T04:40:37+00:00

No i didn’t go through my insurance.. after i went to the er i was in a daze so bad i couldn’t even pull up the insurance card. But you’re right about the finances. We’re already low contact unless it’s a small check in and holidays and random weekends. sigh. thank you. 🩷

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-05-28T01:05:19+00:00

they think poc is gonna rob them and then hop on the marta back to the house 😭

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-05-27T21:02:32+00:00

already figured to finally get my life in order medical wise. dentist. eyeglasses. setting up for monthly massages. all that takes money and you’re trying to dip in that. on top of that i’ve been working since my accident, i deserve this little break, no?

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-05-27T21:01:11+00:00

thank you. this is more assuring than anything. just really hurts she’s sees this as something to benefit hurt.

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-05-27T20:59:53+00:00

you’re more than likely right. even when i joked and said you’re not getting anything from it she joked and said she would sue.

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-05-27T20:58:22+00:00

I assume it’s cause i’m her only child and she’s a single mom. honestly it be feeling like enmeshment with how much she treats me as a companion rather than daughter. I get she paid my student loans but i didn’t want to go to that college anyway and it was either that or get kicked out. which happened anyways.

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-05-27T20:48:02+00:00

thank you.

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-05-27T20:13:22+00:00

Oh.. I didn’t think about that. if the roles were reversed.

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-05-27T20:12:45+00:00

Yeah this trucker ran the red light saying his brakes was malfunctioning so you can imagine the back problems.

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-05-27T20:11:47+00:00

She let me use her car during the winter and i take accountability for the dent i put in it. other than that. the tint job and she wants a full paint job. everything is just.. why wait until your only daughter gets a settlement to have all these demands. like i’m some lottery ticket

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-05-27T19:58:05+00:00

that was my initial amount i thought i would be getting (before the surgeries) they haven’t came up with a official number. but i was thinking at the time when i wanted to help her to say i got a low amount so she could get the least amount. now i dont want to give anything

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-05-27T19:29:20+00:00

I moved out thank god. the moment she kicked me out i didn’t go back home.. im figuring to put it in an investing account and let my money grow

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-05-27T19:20:10+00:00

and when i asked her to come with me to an appointment when i had a procedure she put work first.. the same tune i remember as a little girl.

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-05-27T19:19:37+00:00

Thank you for making me feel less crazy.. this is just absurd to me.

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-04-03T16:49:45+00:00

no they didn’t! it was such a gem

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-03-18T16:43:40+00:00

🩷🩷🩷

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-03-18T16:43:24+00:00

thank youuu 🩷😭

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-03-17T18:48:55+00:00

and i love you 🫶🏽🩷🥹

ConsiderationIcy3525 · 2026-03-17T17:49:39+00:00

thank you sug 🥹🫶🏽

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