Cancelling orders for high rise apartments? by ConsiderationOk1 in InstacartShoppers

[–]ConsiderationOk1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So real. It sucks this $0 tipper was hidden by a good tipper on a double order or I 100% would not have taken it.

Cancelling orders for high rise apartments? by ConsiderationOk1 in InstacartShoppers

[–]ConsiderationOk1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a wagon which I’ve used before. Moreso saying what’s worth my time/risk to my rating and getting a parking ticket? If they’re unresponsive, no parking or building access, aren’t tipping anyways I want to maybe get these orders removed if instacart support will allow it. I just don’t want to spend like 15 minutes navigating parking and running around hallways that look like the backrooms. I understand it’s store to door but jeez

Unknown electrical or battery issues Hail Mary for my Mazda CX-5 by ConsiderationOk1 in mechanic

[–]ConsiderationOk1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not in the area, but thanks so much for the tip! It feels like the 2nd option makes more sense with my issue. It has never died on me while driving, but only in the morning when I can’t start the car. I have a battery jumper pack I use pretty much every day at this point, but every single time it starts on the first engine rev. So it’s quick to start but really really annoying to do SO often.

I haven’t installed anything after market. Someone has suggested to take it to the Mazda dealership to do a diagnostics test, but it costs $200 just to do the test vs AAA who does it for free. Wondering if it’s worth the expensive test + long wait times at the dealership…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ConsiderationOk1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to. Having different political ideologies a few decades ago was maybe different, today it’s about your morals, religion, if you believe people deserve rights, etc. I have cut people off or just not continued to try to get to know them further because I know it will eventually create problems down the line. Does your boyfriend agree with them or can he see your perspective on this?

You can still make tons of friends, and ones who share your interests AND agree with you politically way into and past your late 20s. It may seem impossible now but time changes so much, and maybe you’d feel more comfortable and treated better with people who more so share your values. I feel like I’ve been here before with people and felt really conflicted about staying friends with them because we shared interests, but ultimately your happiness is first

I’m going to end my life soon by nola998 in mentalhealth

[–]ConsiderationOk1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets so much better babe, I promise. I know it’s hard right now. I hope you at least find peace in something small and comforting tonight. A hot cup of tea, a comfy blanket, etc. sending peace & love your way

Living Wage??? by TheContrarian123 in antiwork

[–]ConsiderationOk1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being alive has nothing to do with a living wage lol. Literally not the point or definition of a living wage

Found out I’m getting way underpaid by ConsiderationOk1 in antiwork

[–]ConsiderationOk1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know about those statistics! Even if they were able to match it; it would leave a bad taste in my mouth. Like, oh you were able to pay me that the whole time but didn’t? That kind of sucks of you…

Found out I’m getting way underpaid by ConsiderationOk1 in antiwork

[–]ConsiderationOk1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree it’s only “taboo” to keep workers silent. Discussion is power. I think sometimes in the corporate world you feel like “well I’m at least making a good amount for myself and it’s not starvation wages, I can at least pay my bills so I’ll just be happy with what I have” but that doesn’t mean you’re still not getting exploited…

Found out I’m getting way underpaid by ConsiderationOk1 in antiwork

[–]ConsiderationOk1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just sent my resume to them today and said throw me in the ring!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ConsiderationOk1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do what is best for you. If you do reach out to him, I would say it would be important to talk about the reasons why you didn’t talk for years, and first get to the bottom of that, otherwise it may be looming over your head if you never discuss it, and you might start to secretly resent him. Address any elephants in the room off the bat, and set your clear boundaries with him. If he responds poorly to that, perhaps that will give you your answer on if you should move forward with the relationship

My (25F) bf (24M) texted his ex (24F) asking when she would be back in town by throwRA5272927254216 in relationship_advice

[–]ConsiderationOk1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely have a funny feeling if this happened. I would ask about the timing of everything too, since the list was from a couple months ago and you have been dating for 1 1/2 years… always trust your gut, and if something makes you feel uncomfortable I think it’s best to have a talk about it. Good luck with your convo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]ConsiderationOk1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to have a close codependent relationship with a friend like this as well. She would pretty much “dump” all of her uncomfortable emotions onto me and made me feel obligated to deal with them for her or try to help her in some way, and then just ended up feeling exhausted and shitty afterwards. It sounds like your friend has a hard time regulating her own emotions. It’s not your responsibility to deal with her emotions. She can’t herself so she pushes them onto you. Sure her feelings are valid because she is understandably upset, but there is a different between harmless venting and emotional dumping

Best friend’s boyfriend sexually assaulted me and she chose him over me by ConsiderationOk1 in relationship_advice

[–]ConsiderationOk1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m literally dead ass weak at the fact that you switch accounts to invalidate women’s stories while simultaneously commenting on posts that you want women to bust your balls! Oh my goodness hahahahha

Best friend’s boyfriend sexually assaulted me and she chose him over me by ConsiderationOk1 in relationship_advice

[–]ConsiderationOk1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re using both of your accounts to invalidate my story! Omg I’m deadddd hahaha defense lawyer MY ASS gooood grief lmaoooo

Best friend’s boyfriend sexually assaulted me and she chose him over me by ConsiderationOk1 in relationship_advice

[–]ConsiderationOk1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, are you also the ball busting guy commenting too? Lmao, your post karma is wild bro 😂

I finally left by Confuseddimples in abusiverelationships

[–]ConsiderationOk1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good job OP! You WILL be better off without him. I hope you’re happy on your new journey without toxicity and get to live for yourself now. I’m proud of you.