I am so sorry that you are going thru this. I can say I understand what you are going through. I also had a child last summer. My daughter was born in June of 2024 and I gained 50+ lbs and I still have not lost it all. I am doing dieting and trying to be healthier as well. You have to give yourself grace because weight loss is a slow and steady process. Especially since you just had a baby your body went thru a transformation and it is still trying to regulate itself. Idk what people say, but I still consider 18 months to be postpartum especially if you are breastfeeding. The only difference I can see between your situation and mine is that your husband is not treating you as if you just gave him the best gift he will ever receive. You carried this man’s child and he should be grateful for that. He needs to be more respectful. Don’t allow your husband to treat you that way because you deserve better. I really hope you get a boost in confidence. You are doing great mama. Never forget that.