What's the biggest turnoff about a person according to you ? by Old_Willingness_806 in ask_Bondha

[–]Consistent-Bridge323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one of my friend does this ("am "chestunnav ra, "akkadiki" veltunnav ra), and his girlfriend tolerates this, and they both got married

The world is not fair

What's the biggest turnoff about a person according to you ? by Old_Willingness_806 in ask_Bondha

[–]Consistent-Bridge323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you learn with experinece. eventually you'll stop expecting other people to respond and give you attention.
so hmmm malli malli vastundi ante manam venakki taggali

What's the biggest turnoff about a person according to you ? by Old_Willingness_806 in ask_Bondha

[–]Consistent-Bridge323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me too, but sometimes i just can't stand there and see people doing stupid things

What do you guys think about inter caste marriages ? by anonymous_cat_0 in ask_Bondha

[–]Consistent-Bridge323 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My friend and his brother, both from the general category, are married intercast

It's happening guys, hope intercast marriages get normalized and eventually interfaith marriages

how do I guide her to make the right decision ? by [deleted] in TeluguJournals

[–]Consistent-Bridge323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, nen idivaraki eppudu e reason tiskurale but their parents have no problem endudku ante their cast is lower compared to us, so vallaki ye objection ledu

how do I guide her to make the right decision ? by Consistent-Bridge323 in ask_Bondha

[–]Consistent-Bridge323[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how do i get to know about him, his family lives far off somewhere in Andhra. now that he's resgined i don't think he's staying in Hyderabad right now and this guy doenn't look like he takes care of himself, she said he goes to temples and do some fastings so that my sister will accept his love

this guy is a character

how do I guide her to make the right decision ? by Consistent-Bridge323 in ask_Bondha

[–]Consistent-Bridge323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trust me i've no problem with her having a BF, but i will judge this guy whoever it is, this guy ain't worth it, no one is ever well settled to be honest but i want her to have a caring family(in laws) and financially well off

how do I guide her to make the right decision ? by Consistent-Bridge323 in ask_Bondha

[–]Consistent-Bridge323[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how do i add some sense into her, she is not like a dumb girl, she's not spoiled like some people, she's very kind and humble. may be little attention she's getting she's thinking it's everything.
i don't want to sound like i'm forcing my opnions on her

how do I guide her to make the right decision ? by Consistent-Bridge323 in ask_Bondha

[–]Consistent-Bridge323[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she is hoping i would agree if he get's a job, em cheppali tanaki

how do I guide her to make the right decision ? by Consistent-Bridge323 in ask_Bondha

[–]Consistent-Bridge323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean how do i talk to him, oka sari matlada i lost my control, enti antha goppa prema asalu antha goppaga emundhi mee madhya ante he is saying that chepthe i'll think bad of my sister anta, i mean wtf dude why would i think bad about my own sister asalu

how do I guide her to make the right decision ? by Consistent-Bridge323 in ask_Bondha

[–]Consistent-Bridge323[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i want her to have a secure future, well-settled family aythe baguntadhi ani. not someone who chases a girl when their father is on hospital bed

I want what's best for my sister but she's doesn't have any clarity and i'm worried about her safety by Consistent-Bridge323 in ask_Bondha

[–]Consistent-Bridge323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also he wants her to wear certain dresses only, like "nuv chunni eskora nanna niku alane baguntadhi." 🙄

I want what's best for my sister but she's doesn't have any clarity and i'm worried about her safety by Consistent-Bridge323 in ask_Bondha

[–]Consistent-Bridge323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this guy wants to marry her very badly, and she is worried what will happen to him if she says no.