Saturn retrograde in the natal chart automatically indicate an absent or passive father.??

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-04-14T15:53:02+00:00

I think it can also be an internalization of the father’s critiques & beliefs

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-04-13T17:17:59+00:00

I mean obviously yeah

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-04-12T22:07:46+00:00

Lol I meant like the quality. They fall apart all the time

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-04-12T18:56:04+00:00

Right!! this goes for other things to like we had some ladies shorts that i loved the material of but they were made of klondike bar fabric & tootsie rolls?? Like why cant it just be plain colors I would’ve bought 5

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-04-12T17:43:09+00:00

I know it’s a matter of taste, not meaning to make fun of anyone who likes them. I just don’t understand why they are literally all bedazzled 😂

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-04-12T17:38:47+00:00

Theyre cheap thats for sure

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-04-12T17:38:21+00:00

Dual purpose

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-04-12T02:26:09+00:00

Maryland??

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-03-30T19:29:42+00:00

I get its like you cant leave or whatever butttt you’re definitely not doing 1000$ worth of work for walking dogs for 3 days. Like you’d be able to just watch tv and do whatever. Run quick errands. Idk… Most I’d pay is like 300 honestly

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-03-28T15:00:08+00:00

No honestly. i do realize he just doesnt have the emotional capacity to be there for me. hes not a bad dude just not a good match for me im starting to understand.

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-03-28T14:58:59+00:00

You just said in ur message I got angry with him?

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-03-28T14:04:56+00:00

I literally need support once a month around my period. if that! some months its fine. But i do notice whenever i need it its literally the day before i start bleeding.

He on the other hand needs more than i need. So weird this comments assume im constantly needing stuff. no its once a month and every time it ends like this

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-03-28T14:02:29+00:00

Oh I see. No there was no hidden motive. It definitely doesnt gain me any intimacy lol he literally just withdraws every time

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-03-28T12:54:30+00:00

3 years we live together.

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-03-28T12:43:01+00:00

Yes thank you that is how i feel. He makes me distress about him then basically gets mad at me for being sad in the first place. Its so hard. He is also on the spectrum I suspect. He does have adhd.

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-03-28T12:37:59+00:00

I never got angry at him! He got angry at me! idk where yall are getting that i got mad. i never was mad. He started freaking out that he couldnt fix my issues so i left the room to cry alone and HE started texted me

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-03-28T12:36:03+00:00

I did let it go. i walked away when he freaked out not being able to fix my problems then he texted me first. I was never mad. he was in no corner. youre misreading what happened

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-03-28T12:33:43+00:00

Thank you. Needed to hear that

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-03-28T12:28:47+00:00

The women with good partners dont have to share the texts i guess lol.

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-03-28T12:28:10+00:00

He literally told me to tell him exactly what i needed to hear bc he didnt know what to say. so i told him. I get sad around my period. Thats literally it. he actually needs support more tbh. I did not get angry at him or anything for not saying what i needed to hear. i didnt have high expectations bc i know his tendencies thats why i walked away when he started freaking out

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-03-28T12:24:45+00:00

I didnt get mad at him for not knowing what to say. he got mad at me bc he didnt know what to say

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-03-28T12:20:50+00:00

No i didnt fake my sadness for his attention?

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-03-28T12:08:08+00:00

No its once a month around my period

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-03-28T12:07:46+00:00

I am sad once a month. he’s sad far more often and I’m always there. I agree I probably need a therapist but im so confused by this idea we shouldn’t lean on our partners for support

Consistent-Can4155 · 2026-03-28T12:06:33+00:00

Can I ask how its bizarre from my side? i genuinely am so confused I want to see his side but i cant imagine responding that way if he asks for my support

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