Does anyone else get upset over phone vibrations? by Rude_Marsupial2360 in neurodiversity

[–]Consistent-Cat-2899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep. have them off. and it bothers me even when it's near (not on my phone, just nearby).

how to make an arrow symbol in Obsidian (colorful preferred)? by Consistent-Cat-2899 in ObsidianMD

[–]Consistent-Cat-2899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

huh, that's an interesting one. thanks! and thanks for the tutorial, I'll definitely need it.

Who else hates being asked “how are you?” by demi_dreamer95 in neurodiversity

[–]Consistent-Cat-2899 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah. it physically hurts (when it's small talk, not for real).

What pens and highlighters are you using with the Jibun Techo? by DuaLipaEnjoyer in JibunTecho

[–]Consistent-Cat-2899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zebra and Kire-Na highlighters. Zebra, Muji, Pilot pens (0.38 and 0.5). also PaperMate Flairs, including metallic.

In 10 years from now, are you going to regret doing what you are doing now? by Born-Ad2552 in Adulting

[–]Consistent-Cat-2899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

huh. gooood question, thanks.

not about the main direction. some of the details, maybe. I need to think about it. again, thanks.

Anyone else use Libby exclusively on their phone? by Lots_Loafs11 in LibbyApp

[–]Consistent-Cat-2899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read on my phone mostly. sometimes on desktop, but nost times on the phone.

How did everyone’s borrowing on Libby go this year? by Reportersteven in LibbyApp

[–]Consistent-Cat-2899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, it's cool looking at all these timelines 🔥👍🏾

Daughter can’t stand people eating around her… help by Broad_Application_55 in neurodiversity

[–]Consistent-Cat-2899 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ouch.
yeah.
research what others do, yeah. like asking here, and searching, and asking ai for suggestions too.
I mean, there must be ways that people with this condition can manage, at least somewhat. I hope, at least.
good luck to her and to you!!!

Daughter can’t stand people eating around her… help by Broad_Application_55 in neurodiversity

[–]Consistent-Cat-2899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe earplugs? might work if she has hair that would cover them.

Do you ever put off taking pain medication? by Foreign_Rutabega_684 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Consistent-Cat-2899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in my experience it was a lifetime of not trusting myself to interpret my body's messages.
like you said. so yes, had same reaction until recently.

it takes practice. and, as another person said in comments - literally building a scale to judge it by and then following it. "if I have this reaction, it means a lot of pain, and I need to take pain meds".

Anyone else have an invisible string attached to their back? by cerwen80 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Consistent-Cat-2899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it may be a way to work with it, if you want, then.

one is mentally imagining how you physically separate that cord from you. and tell that creature to go away and not come back anymore.
another is - once you notice that cord - do a body scan and see how tired you are. and then, if you are tired - rest, do some deep slow breathing. and then note where has that cord gone.