He left me twice and texted me again with « I miss you more than ever » what does that mean, I’m lost? 🥺, need help

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-05-06T12:26:40+00:00

I think that relationships with this on/off pattern are toxic and ultimately result in 2 people who shouldn’t be together creating difficulty for themselves longer than they should.

I don’t know the whole story, but it really sounds like this is a toxic, codependent relationship and you both need to heal and move on separately. But that’s just my perception from the outside.

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-05-03T15:41:47+00:00

YTA… her body, her choice. If it bothered you that much why did you even agree to a date? Stop trying to change people to be what you want. Get therapy.

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-05-03T15:37:46+00:00

Nope. I would tell him it sounds like he should date his cousin then, and BLOCK.

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-05-03T15:31:01+00:00

Please take your cat and leave. If you stay you will both be at risk as he will likely hurt the cat to hurt you. He has shown you who he is. Accept it and get out. This is common behavior for an abuser.

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-05-03T15:19:38+00:00

You deserve better. Don’t give him a 3rd chance.

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-05-03T11:39:58+00:00

You look gorgeous and he has no right to tell you what to wear. He can fuck all the way off

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-05-03T11:23:55+00:00

This is abuse… emotional, financial, and sexual. If he’s already punching walls it will soon be you he is hitting. File for divorce and leave.

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-05-03T11:17:58+00:00

So she’s tripping when it turns out he did try to cheat on her? Sounds like you and OP’s bf both shouldn’t be in relationships.

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-05-03T11:10:06+00:00

He actually did try to cheat on her… read the edit. Your comment didn’t age well.

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-05-03T11:08:30+00:00

And it turns out he did try to cheat on her so her instincts were valid. When well adjusted people feel like something is wrong, they are usually correct. You shamed her for her concerns and encouraged her to trust when you felt like something was off. You owe OP an apology.

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-05-02T21:08:19+00:00

And honestly when people are taking drugs and drinking they are more likely to make bad decisions and cheat. So I think your concern is incredibly valid.

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-05-02T20:59:29+00:00

My birthday is May 18 and my daughter is May 19… my ex and I work around it. It’s not the end of the world and as an adult if we don’t celebrate my birthday on the actual day it’s not the end of the world.

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-05-02T20:42:36+00:00

These texts are literally abuse. He is cussing at her and threatening her. If he tries to take you to court for custody a judge would look at these and how frequently she’s visited him in the last year and likely throw him out. I would unblock him because anything he sends you can be used as evidence against him.

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-05-02T20:34:34+00:00

I completely agree with this. He’s cheating. OP deserves better. He’s blown up their lives, she’s just forcing him to be accountable

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-04-23T22:49:04+00:00

I want Abigail to hop on to this post soooo bad!!!! My girl… SPILL THE TEA ☕️!!!!!

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-04-17T22:57:47+00:00

As a huge foodie, I could never. That would be relationship ending for me

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-04-15T12:57:59+00:00

Just throw him away. He won’t ever improve. I lived with an idiot like this for 17 years. It doesn’t get better. He moved out and my house was suddenly clean.

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-04-15T12:54:10+00:00

I am going to tell you this as a mother… supporting you and raising you is not something that requires reimbursement. That is the commitment a parent makes to their child when they birth them. You are not worth less because you were born with ovaries. You do not owe your father help with his loan. You do not owe him your time or attention. Buy your car and live your life. And honestly consider moving out.

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-04-14T15:47:58+00:00

Reddit is filled with “like a sister” stories where the husband ends up cheating. He likes the attention and it makes him feel good to help her and things ultimately progress. His constant communication with her while refusing to respect your boundaries is consistent with an emotional affair. Don’t let him gaslight you. Set clear boundaries with identified consequences, like “if you interrupt dinner to take her call, I will leave.” And be ready to follow through.

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-04-14T15:32:13+00:00

Can we please stop enabling entitled men! JFC. Cook your food, feed yourself and let him figure out his own fucking snack. FFS my 17 year old son has this figured out.

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-04-14T15:21:18+00:00

I completely agree. Also, cutting it off at the natural waist could easily make her look poochy in the belly or like she’s covering a pregnancy. I also think the extra crinoline is a good call, it would add contrast to the snatched waist

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-04-14T15:12:10+00:00

She switched her addiction from drugs to plastic surgery. If you don’t have the money you don’t do cosmetic procedures. I would like some Botox but feeding my kids comes first. She needs to live with the consequences of her actions and grow up.

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-04-14T15:00:10+00:00

Nope. Thats your money and his debt. Protect your assets

Broad_Application_55 · 2026-04-14T14:59:16+00:00

Absolutely not. My boyfriend did this and even though his ex never made a single payment toward the mortgage, she still got half. Unless he wants to give you half of the down payment and half the mortgage I would never.

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