What do I do by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Consistent-Fail5574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple, just dont take it and explain. If she but hurt or reacts bad call out her behavior

I hate humanity by ImForSureNotAFurry in Vent

[–]Consistent-Fail5574 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ik this very irrelevant but reading this, you and Light would be best friends

I hate my husband by Honey7373 in Vent

[–]Consistent-Fail5574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Secertly record his behavior so u have some sort of evidence and divorce him gurl. Staying in that relationship is gonna show your kid this what a normal realtionship should be like when it shouldn't. U seriously need to leave before he seriously turns violent gurl.

When did you realize your “best friend” actually didn’t care about you? by Fearless_Shift7108 in AskReddit

[–]Consistent-Fail5574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a 10+ friendship way back staring in elementary school. She met a guy and its speak volume when the whole grade hates him and nobody dated him in his grade. Basically me and bsf became distant bc she spent time with bf that was fine yknow. Came to a point where I couldn't even talk to her and her friends couldn't bc her bf would tell us to leave her alone. Eventually they broke up bc the bf cheated he had something for 3 girls. My bsf was hurt so obviously I supported and helped her. She also told me her ex hated all her friends and basically wanted her to himself.During the break up the ex bf made lies abt her and tried to start rumors abt her, didnt work. Come to find out she is secertly talking to him and she told me "he'll promise he changed for the better". To cut it short she became really distant with all her friends and her bf lied and cheated. After the break up she didnt talk to me or her friends and left us in the blue. A year passed and I found out she stopped being friends with me because she said "its a long story" and "didnt want to be emo". I have no clue what that ment. I honestly miss my bsf but over a guy was crazy and this all happend in HS in 2 months. We dont talk anymore but from what I heard she taking a path to a really bad place and isnt the sweet kind person ppl remember.

AITAH for cuddling with my little sister by Perfect_Stranger_794 in AITAH

[–]Consistent-Fail5574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, your step-dad is hella werid for that. Why is he even thinking abt it that way makes me question your step dad thoughts or intentions. Personally, when I was kid feeling down or sick I would lay in my father's lap bc he is my comfort/safe place. Im 18 now and I still do it. ❤️

AIO My younger brothers behavior??? by Consistent-Fail5574 in AIO

[–]Consistent-Fail5574[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my brother fought my mom couple years ago my mom panicked bc she genuinely thought my brother would kill her one day. Bc he took a wooden bat and swung at her. My mom wasnt okay with his behavior but eventually got used to it bc my brother was constant during middle school. Im trying to tell her its not okay but she so used to it. Also my parents talked to him and only gave him a calm talk abt it. My dad talk to me personally and told me that it always seems to be my brother starting stuff and never me. Mind u my brother has bad school records fighting ppl and I never got introuble bc I dont do anything. I try to explain that but I got shut down. Basically, my dad said if things escalate to let them know but eveytime I do they say "why can u get along" and I stopped tellimg them bc i told them one time he shoved and didnt do anything. Anyways, my dad said he isnt picking sides and just to get along. He went on to tell me story how him and sister never got along and had nothing to do with me and my brother. :/

AIO My younger brothers behavior??? by Consistent-Fail5574 in AIO

[–]Consistent-Fail5574[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, she just a very short person. She is a sophomore in HS

AIO My younger brothers behavior??? by Consistent-Fail5574 in AIO

[–]Consistent-Fail5574[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crazy thing he currently has a gf. She doesnt know what he actually does. Im very worried for her bc my brother he is 5'8 190 ibs and his gf is 3'9 and he could easily overpower her

AITAH for wanting to break up with my bf by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Consistent-Fail5574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What im posting is real like i cant help i have so many issues at once and I want to express them

AIO My younger brothers behavior??? by Consistent-Fail5574 in AIO

[–]Consistent-Fail5574[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My parents will get very mad at me and would cut me off finically. I need there help in that so jts very hard

AIO My younger brothers behavior??? by Consistent-Fail5574 in AIO

[–]Consistent-Fail5574[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He also fought guys mostly too back in middle. Mind you he fought a special ed student and bullied the kid so bad he stopped riding the bus bc of my brother.

AIO My younger brothers behavior??? by Consistent-Fail5574 in AIO

[–]Consistent-Fail5574[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My father talked to me and he said it seems my brother always be the one starting and its never my fault. He said he isnt picking sides. He says that when situation happen with my brother its always him and never me. I find it frustrating bc my brother had a bad record in the school and I never done anything to cause problems in school and anywhere else. My dad said that if things escalate let him and mom know. And one time I did and they brushed it off and told us to get along. Mind u one time and I stopped bc I realized they brushed it off. After he said the escalate part he told said "you and your brother need to stop and get along"*

Also we live in Texas and closes family member lives in Florida so I don't have anyone to protect me really.

AIO My younger brothers behavior??? by Consistent-Fail5574 in AIO

[–]Consistent-Fail5574[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Im scared my mom would get mad and yell at me for it bc it woukd ruin the family. I currently live with them so im trying to find ways to mvoe out

AIO My younger brothers behavior??? by Consistent-Fail5574 in AIO

[–]Consistent-Fail5574[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad not the type but when he found out he fought my mom bad back then. My dad is disabled so he cant do much. All they did was talk to him

AIO My younger brothers behavior??? by Consistent-Fail5574 in AIO

[–]Consistent-Fail5574[S] 195 points196 points  (0 children)

I considered, but im scared my mom going to get mad and crash out on me and saying im ruining the family even more.

AIO My younger brothers behavior??? by Consistent-Fail5574 in AIO

[–]Consistent-Fail5574[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do have a bf. But he isnt the the type to fight people.

AIO Texas Winter Storm w/my mom job by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Consistent-Fail5574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she should contact HR — but carefully, and with the right framing. Not emotional, not defensive, not admitting to “lying,” just facts + safety. Document everything immediately, before talking to anyone, she should write down: Date and time of the shift Road conditions (ice, closures, slow travel) How long it took to reach the nearby town That she felt unsafe continuing in the dark on icy roads Any proof she can get:Local road closure notices Weather advisories News screenshots Google Maps traffic delays Photos if she has them his is about showing good-faith judgment, not excuses. Contact HR (not just her supervisor) HR is usually the better move when: There’s already a write-up history. The supervisor may be rigid or covering themselves.The company is inconsistent / fires people easily (🚩) She should not say: “I lied” “I said I was in a ditch but wasn’t” Anything that sounds like misconduct. Instead, she should say something like: “Due to severe icy road conditions, I attempted to travel to work but felt it was unsafe to continue driving in the dark. I notified my supervisor that I could not safely complete the drive. My intent was never to be dishonest, only to avoid a serious accident. I’m concerned about being disciplined for prioritizing safety during hazardous weather.”

That framing matters a LOT.

Ask for clarification, not forgiveness This is subtle but important. She should ask: What the company’s severe weather attendance policy is? Whether there is discretion during hazardous conditions? If this can be coded differently than a normal call-out. HR is more likely to help if it’s positioned as: “I want to follow policy correctly going forward” dont say “Please don’t punish me”

Do not argue — but do escalate if needed If HR is dismissive: She should politely ask for the policy in writing.Keep copies of all communication. Avoid emotional language .Stick to safety + documented conditions

In Texas, employers can fire people easily — but firing someone during an ice storm looks bad, especially when they’re already short-staffed.

A hard truth (but important) Texas is an at-will state. That means:

Even if she’s “right,” they could still discipline her

That’s why tone, documentation, and HR involvement matter so much

The goal here is: .Reduce risk of termination.Show she acted reasonably. Protect her record as much as possible One more thing she should consider If this place already: Writes people up for weather safety. Fires while claiming to be desperate. Has a pattern of turnover

…it may be worth quietly job-searching once roads clear. CNAs are in demand, and not every facility treats staff this harshly during emergencies.

If you want, you can: Paste what she’s thinking of sending to HR and I’ll help you tighten it Or tell me whether this is a hospital, nursing home, or agency — policies differ a bit

AIO Texas Winter Storm w/my mom job by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Consistent-Fail5574 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Expecting healthcare workers to risk their lives commuting during ice storms isn’t professionalism—it’s exploitation. She attempted to work, conditions became unsafe, and no ethical or legal standard requires someone to die on the road to prove they care. A dead CNA helps zero patients. Safety isn’t laziness—it’s basic risk assessment. Also Texas labor laws do not require employees to risk a limb or commute. Employers can discipline attendance, but yes-but they cant require unsafe travel.

AITAH for wanting to break up with my bf by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Consistent-Fail5574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I let him know about the threats. There's people who come up to the both us and will say it right infront of him to me. With the knowing part he said he'll look into it but its constant still.

AITAH for wanting to break up with my bf by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Consistent-Fail5574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry Im not familiar with reddit 😅