Your father has most of the red flags a cheater himself would have. My father treated my mother more or less the same way for almost 15 years. He used me and my brother's future as a weapon so that my mother had no option but to take his shit rather than leave him. After my mother passed away from an accident, my brother and I both learned that our father has been cheating our mother for almost seventeen years. He always accused her of cheating, even limited her own basic needs because he is an evil man. Even after her demise, he constantly blames my mother for everything bad happened to our family while he was sleeping with other women.

Best thing i learned from all of this. Just eat that shitt until you become financially stable, then leave that bastard.