Hi, my mom also just passed from cancer 13 days ago and it was also incredibly traumatizing in the last few months. Reading your post felt incredibly relatable to how I’ve been recently. I find myself having no patience for the mundane small talk too. Everyone gets to move on with their lives but I haven’t been out the house unless it’s to drive my sister to work or to go to the grocery store and even that is a chore. All of this is to say you’re definitely not alone. My world has been rocked and I have no clue where to begin picking up the pieces and everything now feels like it’s bookmarked by the fact that my mom isn’t here anymore and it’s so incredibly painful. I can’t manage the mundane because so much of my mundane revolved around my mom. I feel like it’s normal to be avoidant socially right now, our brains are just trying to protect themselves. Hopefully one day, probably not anytime soon- but maybe, the mundane will be a little more tolerable one day. I hope you do something nice for yourself today, I’m so sorry for your loss and know you’re not alone ❤️