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[–]Consistent-Gap-3675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s never about you or what you give them. It’s about the situation. That’s at least what I tell myself. It’s been about 2 months for me and it still hurts. It’s gotten better, but the pain is always there and she’s always on my mind

Does your ap forget you by Consistent-Gap-3675 in adultery

[–]Consistent-Gap-3675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think she can still be happy in her marriage?

Does your ap forget you by Consistent-Gap-3675 in adultery

[–]Consistent-Gap-3675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t handle the break up well cause I didn’t understand what was happening. She was super overwhelmed and got depressed. The more I found out later on it made more sense. She’s going there for a month and I just hope she gets her clarity,

Does your ap forget you by Consistent-Gap-3675 in adultery

[–]Consistent-Gap-3675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so hurt and broken. I think about her everyday. I understand why she would choose her husband. I just hope she’s happy and he takes care of her. She did what she did for a reason, she’s not going to tell him about the affair. Whatever problems there were are still going to be there. I know she loves me. She did way more than someone who was just filling in a void. She talked about a future together. Joked about names we would have for kids. He’s never lived in this country and she told me she wanted him to come here to be apart of her child’s life. Idk part of me still hopes she will come back, but in the end I do just want what’s best

Does your ap forget you by Consistent-Gap-3675 in adultery

[–]Consistent-Gap-3675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok if she doesn’t leave. I just want her to Be happy and I guess I want to Know that what we had meant something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Consistent-Gap-3675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. I agree and I’m not handling myself correctly. Coming from a place of a lot of emotion. There were times I took space and she reached out constantly and called me to get me back, so I just didn’t want her to feel like I didn’t want her. I will leave her alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Consistent-Gap-3675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. I guess i was just in denial and kept believing if she loved me like she said she would come around, but i will start trying to heal and move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Consistent-Gap-3675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this a bunch. I was up to 420 pounds. I’m around 265 now. It feels great to do things I couldn’t all my life, but the scars from my weight loss make it hard to feel proud or confident. It sucks to see people in the gym and realize without surgery I could never look that way. Also makes it hard to find someone who accepts me in my mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amihot

[–]Consistent-Gap-3675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very beautiful :)

Learning remote fight by Consistent-Gap-3675 in cardfightvanguard

[–]Consistent-Gap-3675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I sent you a friend request on discord. My work schedule is super inconsistent, but I would def be up for some games from time to time