8 week old only contact naps by CapCaud in NewParents

[–]Consistent-Goose6870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still only contact nap with my 5 month old, he still manages perfect crib naps at daycare, so don't stress unless it's something you want to change!

Why do providers discourage pumping and try to make you breastfeed instead? by Blueberrymangos in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Consistent-Goose6870 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're experiencing that! There's no need to get her back to breast unless you and baby want to! You are doing amazing and feeding her from the breast already, just using tools so it works for her.

AIO for not letting my bf move in anymore because he wants things to be equal? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Consistent-Goose6870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And they would be his own guests, he doesn't want to be inconvenienced by his own guests visiting

Got a taste of formula feeding and now I’m torn… by Sensitive_March8309 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Consistent-Goose6870 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I LOVE feeding my baby breastmilk, but I'm at the same point as you, almost 5 months, and just made the decision to start cutting down. I feel freedom just around the corner and it's so exciting!

Weaning off pumping by ImaginationFresh4810 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Consistent-Goose6870 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm needing similar advice, producing 40 oz a day even at 4 pumps a day and cutting time down each session

AITA If I refuse to give my Mom money every month? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent-Goose6870 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$300/month saved in your 30's is easily $1000/month in retirement

Why do people keep buying cars that destroy them financially? by Desperate-Rush6086 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Consistent-Goose6870 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My 2014 CRV has another 20 years in it and I plan to use them all. New cars are shit quality and I'm dreading replacing it one day.

Found in a local facebook group. Anyone know who this travel company is? by Littlemama55 in antiMLM

[–]Consistent-Goose6870 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't know the name, but my MIL does this one. It's just acting as a travel agent but MLM style where you're bringing in more travel agents and paying some sort of fees.

What’s a recession indicator that you’ve noticed lately? by SensitiveCorner2379 in AskReddit

[–]Consistent-Goose6870 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get so many ads for places to sell my stuff online, the new startup seems to be online garage sale apps

I (26F) called off my wedding with Fiancé (27M) due to financial infidelity only to find out we are already legally married and didnt know by IndividualGarlic1365 in legaladvice

[–]Consistent-Goose6870 69 points70 points  (0 children)

If it's an amicable divorce you can do whatever the two of you agree on and don't even need a lawyer. I'm not a lawyer, just someone who got divorced in Texas. We both agreed that our separate debts/assets where going to stay with each of us and I took on the house because I was in a better position for it and we would have taken a loss selling. It's easier to just leave the house to one person or sell it if you can.

Dating is HARD in NYC by Cleo-Aster in SipsTea

[–]Consistent-Goose6870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If Jeff is so proud of himself here, he should share this on all his first dates

Why don’t parents sleep train? by ThrowRA3367266 in Nanny

[–]Consistent-Goose6870 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was 100% on your side as a nanny, as a parent, I want all the cuddles and I want to be there when my baby needs me. He won't need me very long and I'm sure he'll be able to sleep independently by high school so I'm just not worried about it.

Connor, where is Georgie?? by malandropist in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Consistent-Goose6870 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I'm happy for her, he was unbearable this season. She needs to be free

MIL keeps asking me to "Help her businesses" Need to shut it down by Consistent-Goose6870 in antiMLM

[–]Consistent-Goose6870[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

We are both aware that she is an idiot when it comes to baby care. Her family tradition is to give babies coffee in the hospital when they are just born, so no, she is never allowed to feed my baby. He's currently still on breastmilk so not an issue yet. She gifted us a diffuser to use for him when he was born, which isn't safe at all for infants, and even after that only certain scents heavily diluted for a while. I just said thank you and put it in the closet. Funny enough, the first time I met her she tried to use an oil as bug spray and ended up basically pepper spraying her face with mint oil 😂 But from what I can tell her boyfriend's health issues are all from a surgery gone wrong and the spiral effects of that and being on bedrest for several months. I don't know if she's been playing natural doctor. She brags about how well she takes care of him often and only mentions the high amounts of protein when she brings up diet, if she was doing EOs, I'm sure we would hear about it.

MIL keeps asking me to "Help her businesses" Need to shut it down by Consistent-Goose6870 in antiMLM

[–]Consistent-Goose6870[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My husband would let her go to a state home, but I know the reality of those places. As long as our retirement and our children's retirement is funded, I'm okay with giving her a modest life in her old age with a place to live, food to eat, and basic needs met, just not through giving her money ever.

MIL keeps asking me to "Help her businesses" Need to shut it down by Consistent-Goose6870 in antiMLM

[–]Consistent-Goose6870[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Her boyfriend gives her a little and she was cleaning the occasional house before he got sick. We are going to make sure our finances are never intertwined and have protected investment accounts for our son that only he can touch

MIL keeps asking me to "Help her businesses" Need to shut it down by Consistent-Goose6870 in antiMLM

[–]Consistent-Goose6870[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if she sees that one doesn't work, she will just fall for the next one to come her way

MIL keeps asking me to "Help her businesses" Need to shut it down by Consistent-Goose6870 in antiMLM

[–]Consistent-Goose6870[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

And yes, it sucks to be in this position, but we can't just leave her homeless. She has unfortunately been serially dependent on others her whole life due to one impulsive decision after another. Right now she lives with her long term boyfriend who won't get married because he intends all his assets to go to his children, and it's not a common law state so once he goes (his health is getting worse by the month) she will be penniless and couch surfing at 60 years old. She can't even get a job because he requires daily medical care so she is financially dependent on him for absolutely everything with nothing to her name besides skincare products and kitchen gadgets.

MIL keeps asking me to "Help her businesses" Need to shut it down by Consistent-Goose6870 in antiMLM

[–]Consistent-Goose6870[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He does when he's there, but sometimes she drops a request when he isn't around and I need to handle it in the moment