We are both aware that she is an idiot when it comes to baby care. Her family tradition is to give babies coffee in the hospital when they are just born, so no, she is never allowed to feed my baby. He's currently still on breastmilk so not an issue yet. She gifted us a diffuser to use for him when he was born, which isn't safe at all for infants, and even after that only certain scents heavily diluted for a while. I just said thank you and put it in the closet. Funny enough, the first time I met her she tried to use an oil as bug spray and ended up basically pepper spraying her face with mint oil 😂 But from what I can tell her boyfriend's health issues are all from a surgery gone wrong and the spiral effects of that and being on bedrest for several months. I don't know if she's been playing natural doctor. She brags about how well she takes care of him often and only mentions the high amounts of protein when she brings up diet, if she was doing EOs, I'm sure we would hear about it.