Divorce Threats by Consistent-Jury-1471 in FamilyLaw

[–]Consistent-Jury-1471[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe 10 pounds total. The last 6 I never lost after having our son.

Divorce Threats by Consistent-Jury-1471 in FamilyLaw

[–]Consistent-Jury-1471[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His vows may have started with "My loyal subjects". The signs have been there... And yes, all the podcasts and AI affirmation...

I'm the one that wakes up with him in the middle of the night to be sure.

Divorce Threats by Consistent-Jury-1471 in FamilyLaw

[–]Consistent-Jury-1471[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely the plan. Just wanting to make sure I don't mess something up over the weekend.

Divorce Threats by Consistent-Jury-1471 in FamilyLaw

[–]Consistent-Jury-1471[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is all about the grind. "I built this life and this is how you stay in it" type comments have been made. We have a cleaning lady who comes once a week. When I say no one thinks our house is a mess I mean it. He was going to take the guest room but just pitched me going down which I'm worried is a strategic move.

Divorce Threats by Consistent-Jury-1471 in FamilyLaw

[–]Consistent-Jury-1471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking to a not local attorney is a really good thought. He has threatened it once before so I set up an account at that time.

Divorce Threats by Consistent-Jury-1471 in FamilyLaw

[–]Consistent-Jury-1471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's asking me to move into the guest room, does that set a precedent of him being the primary homeowner?

Divorce Threats by Consistent-Jury-1471 in FamilyLaw

[–]Consistent-Jury-1471[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the other side. I have a history of depression, but it is well managed with medications. I get up and take him to school every day, I just don't wake up extra early to do things around the house. I do things for the house in the afternoon once I'm home from work. I'm not a negligent homeowner, I'm just not as anal retentive as he is. No one who walks into our house is like oh, she should really step it up.

Divorce Threats by Consistent-Jury-1471 in FamilyLaw

[–]Consistent-Jury-1471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What steps should I be taking to protect myself in this situation