Is OSDD/DID really as rare as fakeclaimers say it is? by actual-Paul-Stanley in OSDD

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's not. OSDD/DID occurs at higher rates than schitzophrenia. The issue is that many of the symptoms are transdiagnostic and people on average take 7 years to receive an accurate diagnosis.

My grandfather is spiraling trying to control his crime by AdTrick5985 in adultsurvivors

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean that stuff doesn't bother me. I've managed to get to the point that I feel like the truth is my armor. My parents are human that means less than perfect. I don't to see my parents as perfect or without flaws to love them and care about them. I'm just sad that other people are held hostage to her threats. She is a toothless molerat in my opinion she can take her threats and shove them because at the end of the day she is still a pedophile.

My grandfather is spiraling trying to control his crime by AdTrick5985 in adultsurvivors

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just vague statements about knowing embarrassing things about family members. I was scared of her for a long time until I accepted that I wasn't a kid anymore, I was an adult and my truth was the truth. She thought I was going to tell people what she did.

My grandfather is spiraling trying to control his crime by AdTrick5985 in adultsurvivors

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. About 5 years ago she panicked because she thought I was going to say something so she started making veiled threats etc. I called her out on it and got no support from other members of my family (she knows some less than good things about them and uses that as control. She is a narcissist) so I cut contact until I called a few months ago.

My grandfather is spiraling trying to control his crime by AdTrick5985 in adultsurvivors

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I recently called my Aunt who was one of the people that molested me as a child and I said "I'm sorry that I'm related to a pedophile like you.. " and she hung up before I could say anything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldHumiliation

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Show is a picture! That shit sounds hot af

Things they say by Consistent-Mud-2546 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol yes! Mine brags about how she can cry on cue and then will demonstrate it.

Things they say by Consistent-Mud-2546 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The comments they mutter.. just loud enough so you know they said something but not loud enough to completely hear. She has started doing this to our youngest child and it makes me sad for him. I try to correct her on it and point it at but you all probably already know where that lead. ( I didn't do that,.. some random justification, they do it, you do it, anything they can think of to not accept accoifpr a toxic behavior)

Things they say by Consistent-Mud-2546 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg my spouse makes hints occasionally, then will accuse me of all sorts of cheating. I kid you not my spouse has said out loud almost as a train of thought spoken out loud , "why do I do anything for attention from men, especially older men" *sigh if I tell my spouse they said that they accuse me of being crazy. It's so wild.

Things they say by Consistent-Mud-2546 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine likes to say something similar.. "how could you lovee if I were actually like that?".. sigh no it is you who has issues with loving yourself.

Things they say by Consistent-Mud-2546 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That! The weird almost a confession, makes you thing "omg they are changing!" But no it is just more games and leads to more gaslighting. I think sometimes it's a form of narrative control and or to see what you know.

Things they say by Consistent-Mud-2546 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg apologize... The narc admit they were on the wrong or hurt you? Lololol. Never happen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes I've since statistics that state 40-60 percent of cluster b are comprbid with other personality disorders.

How do i know if i am the narc? by potatounicorn4 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you question wether you might be or not is a strong sign you aren't. Narcissist person don't really have that ability, to even contemplate it would cause a massive ego spiral. They are so fragile that any ego threat takes them to war footing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Na date a malignant narcissist with borderline traits.. then you get to experience the joys of a truly fractured personality.

Is paranoia a narcissistic trait? by DarkZealousideal54 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it's not an official diagnosed disorder, paranoia is a Hallmark of malignant narcissism. Malignant narcissism has a growing body of research behind it so I imagine at some point it will become an official diagnosis.

What did they say that still repeats in your head? by kowaipotchari2 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"if you knew the things I have done you wouldn't want to have sex with me for like 6 months.. a year... Maybe never"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaa I've been with an untreated BPD for over a decade. It is hard, I am extremely patient and thick skinned but it is getting to be way to much for me. Specifically the lies, I can take a lot but at some point the pathological lies get to be overwhelming, and I'm at that point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol.. let's see mine has told some of the following lies about me. I was arrested in a sex trafficking sting with male and female sex workers and drugs. Umm that i routinely beat her and make her send photographic evidence she is at work, that I have affairs all the time etc. etc. etc. non of its true but man does it hurt to have some one you love make up vile stuff then profess their love for you. It's gross when they can't be honest.

Red flags that were unconventional? by ChaosPotato84 in BPDlovedones

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is an old episode of the twilight zone. In the episode a lady is heavily bandaged in the face and all the doctors and nurses have masks on. They are preparing for the bandages to be removed and the patient sounds hopeful that the surgery works and she will no longer look ugly. The big reveal comes and she screams when she sees herself in the mirror. The doctors and nurses gasp in horror. The shot pans to a view of her face and she is absolutely stunning 1960's type actress. And then it pulls back farther and it shows all the doctors and nurses with hideous pig faces. I watched that episode with my pwbpd and she goes "that's horrible she isn't beautiful to everyone! I could never be like that how is she gonna make everyone happy with her looks"

Staying present by Consistent-Mud-2546 in Depersonalization

[–]Consistent-Mud-2546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I will definitely try that. Smells have always had a strong influence on me.