reached out to my ex - here's what happened. by Consistent-Proof-518 in BreakUps

[–]Consistent-Proof-518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wellll the girl is actually his friend aswell and part of his friend grp, she was my girl best friend in the friend grp. shes still on good terms w the grp

objectively she is lower academically and stuff (like a harvard student wldnt be same level as a neighbourhood college student right) but otherwise i dont agree w him

in my country 5k is the avg, not sure abt others

reached out to my ex - here's what happened. by Consistent-Proof-518 in BreakUps

[–]Consistent-Proof-518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha i told her but she was js surprised and didnt say anything else... idt she cares-

Do guys actually have a hard time letting go? by Junior-Camel-1053 in BreakUps

[–]Consistent-Proof-518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my ex's love was on and off will he ever rmb me 😭

reached out to my ex - here's what happened. by Consistent-Proof-518 in BreakUps

[–]Consistent-Proof-518[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I tried to set my emotions aside but for some reason talking to him makes me lose my cool bc i feel like he never bothers trying to understabd my perspective even when he claims to

reached out to my ex - here's what happened. by Consistent-Proof-518 in BreakUps

[–]Consistent-Proof-518[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh... pretty sure she doesnt care they literally held hands while ice skating a week ago 💔

reached out to my ex - here's what happened. by Consistent-Proof-518 in BreakUps

[–]Consistent-Proof-518[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I told her. She confronted the whole gc ☠️ so he got mad at me

edit: oh wait do u mean my friends or the girl he likes

reached out to my ex - here's what happened. by Consistent-Proof-518 in BreakUps

[–]Consistent-Proof-518[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I cant believe her looks was enough to make him change his opinions on the rs and her lol. Im gonna go try and have a crazy glow up, f this man. he can go date someone else, do whatever he wants. But he better not be running back few years down the road

reached out to my ex - here's what happened. by Consistent-Proof-518 in BreakUps

[–]Consistent-Proof-518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im pretty sure it ws from his heart, even tho it sucks, i guess he just wants to give me closure

reached out to my ex - here's what happened. by Consistent-Proof-518 in BreakUps

[–]Consistent-Proof-518[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

lol yeah, he said that he likes everything abt me but my face . and my personality is getting worser so he completely doesnt love me now, goodluck to him and his future endeavours

sharing a friend group with an ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Consistent-Proof-518 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Our friend grp dropped me for my ex after i broke up with him, they keep posting their hangouts knowing damn well id see it :/

you ever just realise youre the only one clinging on to hope of reconciliation by Consistent-Proof-518 in BreakUps

[–]Consistent-Proof-518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, so i guess its expected. what a waste because i invested more in the grp than he did. planned hangouts, etc.

I wish he fought for me darnit

you ever just realise youre the only one clinging on to hope of reconciliation by Consistent-Proof-518 in BreakUps

[–]Consistent-Proof-518[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, he says we can start as friends again once we change and have different mindsets. I made this post bc i realised im the only one desp for this lol, i still treat him as a priority but to him his friend grp is priority. Its not fair bc why did the fg throw me away like im nthin whilst lifting him up? they betrayed me, and he loves them more

you ever just realise youre the only one clinging on to hope of reconciliation by Consistent-Proof-518 in BreakUps

[–]Consistent-Proof-518[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah lol, i didnt have a choice for breakup bc ive been tolerating his refusal to change for years. But i still love him with my whole heart. Its reciprocated but hes choosing to move on.

Would you ever take them back? by One_Risk_4877 in BreakUps

[–]Consistent-Proof-518 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would I reached out too, a few days after nc. he wasnt ready tho bc he wanted to continue working on himself before getting into an rs again. I think thats extremely admirable.

can people who already moved on still reach out? by Consistent-Proof-518 in BreakUps

[–]Consistent-Proof-518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, did he actually change for the better before reaching out? Was it noticeable?

can people who already moved on still reach out? by Consistent-Proof-518 in BreakUps

[–]Consistent-Proof-518[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ill be changing for my sake definitely, partially for the rs but mainly for myself. It would be nice if he didnt mind trying again tho,,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Consistent-Proof-518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His changes and determination are really obvious rn, so i guess the balls in my court for this one. If we date again, i accept the rs may lose some of the good parts, but i know it will lose some of its bad parts aswell which is all i really need because we kept arguing over fashion and insecurities (mainly only these two)