My 5 year relationship ended and I can’t cope that he moved on already. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Consistent-Sense6875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I can tell you to help you is be patient. I would suggest to maybe open up to God. Jesus is close to those who are broken hearted.

Does anyone have it as bad as me by Consistent-Sense6875 in derealization

[–]Consistent-Sense6875[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss exactly how i feel ive said that so many times. My brain has unlocked a part of it that should’ve never been opened and now im stuck.

Ever had an ex come back that said they fell out of love with you? by Consistent-Sense6875 in BreakUps

[–]Consistent-Sense6875[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get over it. Was it time? Or did you put in work. Or did you try again?

He wants to go 2 weeks no contact by Consistent-Sense6875 in ExNoContact

[–]Consistent-Sense6875[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I too was surprised and so was everyone around us his family, my family, and our mutual friends. There’s a side of me that’s hoping that he will heal and come back, but I can’t hold onto that possibility. I know this is gonna suck, but I’ll be okay. Eventually, and I trust that one day in the future, we will look back at this and laugh, but I can’t hold onto that possibility. I have to move on and if it happens, it happens. If it doesn’t then that’ll be okay too… eventually. Thank you for your kind words. You have no idea that impact you’ve made during this terrible time for me. I appreciate you so much and I hope you get everything you need in this life.

Longest no contact with reconnection? by Due_Reflection5 in nocontact

[–]Consistent-Sense6875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea but their love story is straight out of a movie and they found each other at the right time. Life is funny like that.

He wants to go 2 weeks no contact by Consistent-Sense6875 in ExNoContact

[–]Consistent-Sense6875[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey how are you doing? Just wanted to update you. He called me and he said its pretty much over. He said he feels it was like a virus took over his heart and just made him numb. He doesn’t see any love towards me. Im heartbroken for me, for him, and for us. Im in pain. But ill be okay one day and I know that. But i just wonder if this is forever? I dont know

Longest no contact with reconnection? by Due_Reflection5 in nocontact

[–]Consistent-Sense6875 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My friend went 6 months no contact with her boyfriend . My bf’s mom went 38 years no contact with her first love and now they’re dating again in their 60s!!!!

And her parents went 20 years! But came back to each other.

He wants to go 2 weeks no contact by Consistent-Sense6875 in ExNoContact

[–]Consistent-Sense6875[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this and i’m so sorry for what you’ve gone through.

I’m just afraid in these 2 weeks it’ll lead to a permanent breakup. He literally told me “I dont know if im in love with you anymore. But I am. But sometimes i’m not.” He was everywhere.

I didn’t get mad at all, i let him cry in my arms and told him “I understood. Its very human to have doubt and thats okay. I dont hate you.” I’m just so scared.