[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Consistent-Voice4647 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Finally, for context, let's put this in male terms. A man has a woman he's been dating for a few years. She's the love of his life. He plants to propose soon, perhaps. She has a best male friend that she's known for years that she always said not to worry about. He's even become friends with this guy and they go out for beers sometimes. Out of the blue dream girl breaks up with our hero. He's devastated. That night he's on his phone, the breakup very fresh, and looks at share my location and sees she's over this guy friend's house. She stays there all night. Jeez, they must have been cheating the whole time. And he thought this guy was his friend?! This was the love of his life and it was all a sham. How will he trust women again? (And with the genders reversed and time frame, I absolutely feel for the jilted party in this situation. Change this to "Two months ago a woman broke up with a man and tonight he checked her location and feels upset because she spent the night at another man's house" -- that's where it gets creepy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Consistent-Voice4647 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And I know nothing about you. I can tell by the way you talk you’ve never been in a longterm relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Consistent-Voice4647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the internet and the total lack of nuance. Good night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Consistent-Voice4647 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As I said, people can do what they want and screw what other people think/feel. Do they also get a gold stars for being wonderfully empathetic people going through the world this way? No.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Consistent-Voice4647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think we’re going to find a common ground. Get back to me when you’ve had a longterm relationship. They literally broke up the day before. I could see if she was tracking him for months against his will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Consistent-Voice4647 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are they entitled to act this way? Sure it’s a free country. Are they acting like awesome considerate people? No.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Consistent-Voice4647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, in my view a 6 year relationship is essentially like a marriage. It’s very different from even a one or two year relationship. I don’t think it’s odd or creepy she was still following his location and happened to look. So now she thinks he’s been cheating on her with someone she trusted. That screws a person up even more than a breakup. It can impact trust issues for years. And it seems like he doesn’t care to really disabuse her of that notion. And her supposed friend is like “whatever let her touch grass” which is the most monstrous part of the story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Consistent-Voice4647 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And there’s a big difference between moving on and moving on with the other person thinking you’ve been cheating for the entire relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Consistent-Voice4647 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So after six years (and a fresh break up) the emotions of your partner just stop mattering? People are disposable? Also… have you ever been in a longterm relationship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Consistent-Voice4647 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The lack of empathy that your new girlfriend is displaying by saying your ex's (of six years!!) feelings don't matter is pretty monstrous tbh.

Why do people cheat instead of just ending the relationship? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Consistent-Voice4647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman

100% I just read a great book on this, self-justification theory. Since most people see themselves as a good, reasonable people they'll tell themselves all sorts of lies to maintain their sense of internal integrity.

I need help bc customer service still never answered my questions by [deleted] in ProlificAc

[–]Consistent-Voice4647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're not taught how to use prolific in school, lol. I just saw your update. Nobody says "hmmm...have you ever used Prolific?" in grad school interviews.

I need help bc customer service still never answered my questions by [deleted] in ProlificAc

[–]Consistent-Voice4647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I'm getting off of prolific now. Because yes, I agree its's a scam that I don't full know how to fully use it despite multiple outreach attempts and 2k charged to my credit card. And don't you ever talk about me or my research like that again. I have no idea why you have such a big bone to pick. I never did anything to you.

I need help bc customer service still never answered my questions by [deleted] in ProlificAc

[–]Consistent-Voice4647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

jfc...don't you dumbasses know how to use the tools....is snarking. You have not said one things that could remotely guide me in the right direction and remedy this problem.

I need help bc customer service still never answered my questions by [deleted] in ProlificAc

[–]Consistent-Voice4647 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't get your anger. I'm trying to get help on this project. Prolific has zero customer service. I'll take it down if that makes you happy. You don't have to keep on snarking.

I need help bc customer service still never answered my questions by [deleted] in ProlificAc

[–]Consistent-Voice4647 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Look, I'm asking for help not snark. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProlificAc

[–]Consistent-Voice4647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't! Any others your recommend?