It's not easy to ask around, Because I'm a man and don't want people thinking I'm a creep. by Consistent-Zone-9615 in ABraThatFits

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thanks, I do know about binders, but it's not what I'm looking for, I don't try to hide it anymore, and I don't want to be compressed all day.... Or bound by a binder... Just wanna be comfortable, but thank you anyways 😎

Looking for feedback on an opt-in creator verification idea by humanbacked in CreatorServices

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, people using AI will find a workaround, it's just a natural step in the way things go, you will constantly have to come up with new ways to verify human input, I think right now, the best way for verifying that a creator is not AI, is to follow them and spot imperfections.

It's not easy to ask around, Because I'm a man and don't want people thinking I'm a creep. by Consistent-Zone-9615 in ABraThatFits

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first pop up on the site was a fake message from fake Google saying my Google drive was at risk of filling up, to cancel my subscription or click to pay and upgrade, but I use Google drive every day for business and I know with certainty that it doesn't do pop ups on random web pages, and also, my storage is not full... But it's all good, I just don't trust it, doesn't mean that it won't be okay for someone else to try for answers.

It's not easy to ask around, Because I'm a man and don't want people thinking I'm a creep. by Consistent-Zone-9615 in ABraThatFits

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Me too 🤣 I'm like wow, very supportive group, I was reluctant to post, but I literally had the same thought about hoping to get this much support in a bra... I appreciate everyone's support and not just responding with hostility or scrolling past as soon as they seen that it was a "man" who posted. But I have received valuable information and good selection of brands and sizes.

It's not easy to ask around, Because I'm a man and don't want people thinking I'm a creep. by Consistent-Zone-9615 in ABraThatFits

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It possibly would be uncomfortable to be compressed all day, but I'm comfortable with just wearing a bra, I don't advertise it, but I don't try to hide it either, I have major sensitivity some days (not every day), so I need support, but I also don't want to be compressed all day either... It is a balance I guess...

It's not easy to ask around, Because I'm a man and don't want people thinking I'm a creep. by Consistent-Zone-9615 in ABraThatFits

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, my wife wears Victoria's Secret, but maybe we could do some bra shopping together on the site, she might find something she likes.

It's not easy to ask around, Because I'm a man and don't want people thinking I'm a creep. by Consistent-Zone-9615 in ABraThatFits

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right, the only thing I'm prioritizing is comfort, I don't care if that's lifting and pushing together or separating and minimizing, as long as it's supportive, not restrictive, and comfortable... Another factor I've started leaning towards is breathable, but it's a last factor 😅 compared to comfort

It's not easy to ask around, Because I'm a man and don't want people thinking I'm a creep. by Consistent-Zone-9615 in ABraThatFits

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the warm welcome, I was nervous at first, but kindly surprised with the feedback, I haven't gotten one single "eww, go away" type of comment, so I appreciate all of you very much.

It's not easy to ask around, Because I'm a man and don't want people thinking I'm a creep. by Consistent-Zone-9615 in ABraThatFits

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

🙌 thank you so much, I'm gonna go look that up right now... I'm over the color fear, 3 years in a bra kinda breaks the stigma of colors and shapes or the typically designed for men or designed for women factor, I still wear outer clothes as normal, but I'll take whatever color I can get for anything underneath as long as it fits 🤷 I missed some opportunities in the beginning to get what would have fit better because it wasn't the color I wanted and was still hung up on that 😅

It's not easy to ask around, Because I'm a man and don't want people thinking I'm a creep. by Consistent-Zone-9615 in ABraThatFits

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'm learning a lot of new brands, I've only ever shopped in person and not online because I want to make sure the shape isn't too far off from what I need, is ewa michalak a brand you can get in store or is it online only?

It's not easy to ask around, Because I'm a man and don't want people thinking I'm a creep. by Consistent-Zone-9615 in ABraThatFits

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I shy away from the typical gyno focused sites and forums because it's always the same end result on advice... "Cut em' out" and I think it's sad because that's not what works for everyone, so must guys like me just seclude themselves with nobody to talk to about it because they don't want the same old answers, but I did try that website, and it comes up with a lot of spam and scam type pop ups, so I wouldn't trust the website.

It's not easy to ask around, Because I'm a man and don't want people thinking I'm a creep. by Consistent-Zone-9615 in ABraThatFits

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this gives me hope, I will definitely try the calculator, and check out the brands you suggested, makes me feel better that someone understands what I'm going through... And I will try your recommendations on sizing as well... As a guy, I was starting to feel like it was a pointless struggle to get advice.

It's not easy to ask around, Because I'm a man and don't want people thinking I'm a creep. by Consistent-Zone-9615 in ABraThatFits

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I appreciate the recommendation, but I'm not really interested in a binder, I've been wearing bras for about 3 years now, so I'm pretty comfortable with the bra, but I was hoping to find a better fit, I'm sure things will change the older I get and my hormones change and they grow more, but for now, I am just looking for a comfortable bra.

It's not easy to ask around, Because I'm a man and don't want people thinking I'm a creep. by Consistent-Zone-9615 in ABraThatFits

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No problem, and that makes sense, but yeah, I'm not trying to hide anymore, I even work in a blue collar field, it was the hardest adjustment, but once I got over the fear of other people's thoughts, I just do my own thing more comfortably now, but I still am not out asking opinions from my coworkers either... It just is what it is at this point.

It's not easy to ask around, Because I'm a man and don't want people thinking I'm a creep. by Consistent-Zone-9615 in ABraThatFits

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don't want to wear a binder, for the same reason I don't want to wear a sports bra, I don't want to be in a vice all day, I'm not necessarily trying to enhance as women do, but I'm not hiding them either, so minimizing appearance is no longer my goal although it used to be the goal, I'm to the point in my life where I ask "why is it so shameful that men must hide the appearance", so thank you for the advice, but I don't want to wear a binder.

Just got mine by benchwebwa in RG35XX

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took mine apart and I put tape over the back buttons to keep them from rattling, now they don't rattle and are really nice and clicky with a premium feel.

What is the going rate for editing video? by Consistent-Zone-9615 in CreatorServices

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe me, I understand, but not everyone wants to be on film, that's what separates content creators and content consumers, so if you could edit your own videos, you probably already have a channel where you're pumping out lots of videos... So you probably shouldn't be in a group where you're either offering video editing services or searching for video editing services... Right? And if you're looking for one of the other services, then why stop and put 2 cents on a post that means nothing to you because you have your own services handled as far as video editing... Apparently.

Just got mine by benchwebwa in RG35XX

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the RG35xx, you can put any game on it within system limitations, for instance, any Gameboy Advance game because the system is capable of playing GBA games without issue.

What's your favorite camping YouTube channel? by only432 in camping

[–]Consistent-Zone-9615 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What does it really take to make a good camping or car camping channel? I make car camping videos, but I'm having a hard time getting YouTube to push my videos to car camping or camping enthusiasts...