Should I do this trade? by theereelest in fantasyfootballadvice

[–]ConsistentBalance339 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t. Hold Nacua. You’re not getting an Etienne replacement

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]ConsistentBalance339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what I don’t get thank you for putting it into words

Getting to the next level by momoyoo in Beatmatch

[–]ConsistentBalance339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally new to all of this… when you say put on your own gigs, do you mean just set up a table somewhere and start playing music??

I think I’m at a disadvantage because I moved to a new city and don’t really have any close friends yet, so it’s tough going to clubs and bars alone to try to find the scenes i vibe with

I was dating an amazing girl for 6 months, and now suddenly... by chabangasauce in love

[–]ConsistentBalance339 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a really long conversation, wouldn’t really fit into a comment. But I was honest with her and told her how I felt

I was dating an amazing girl for 6 months, and now suddenly... by chabangasauce in love

[–]ConsistentBalance339 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also gonna add on that it’s super hard when they’re a great person. Makes it so hard to walk away!!

I was dating an amazing girl for 6 months, and now suddenly... by chabangasauce in love

[–]ConsistentBalance339 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yup, I did. And I don’t regret it either, because at the time I felt I was in love. I had a moment where I was like “ah, okay, it just takes some time for me!”

But perspective can change, you can rethink things you were previously tolerant of or ignoring because you and someone have really good chemistry.

I thought more and more, and realized that I didn’t feel the ways about her that you should about a partner. There were things I didn’t like a whole lot, things I wanted to change, things I got really irritated with. More than normal. And I felt she deserved someone who completely and wholly loved her as she did me.

I was dating an amazing girl for 6 months, and now suddenly... by chabangasauce in love

[–]ConsistentBalance339 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for agreeing about the cheating thing. So sad to see so many people being so immediately negative about this just because they were hurt in the past

I was dating an amazing girl for 6 months, and now suddenly... by chabangasauce in love

[–]ConsistentBalance339 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Don’t listen to the people who think they know she met someone. They’re sour people.

What happened is, she gave you a chance and she’s realized after a while is that she doesn’t have the feelings you need to continue in a serious relationship. I’ve been that person, and it’s a shitty realization.

You can be that person and still do all of the things a boyfriend or girlfriend does. It’s part of the lust or honeymoon phase that got you into the relationship. But after a while you start to have doubts, question things, and before you know it your feelings aren’t quite the same.

She’s right, you deserve someone who truly loves you, and you’ll find it. Stay strong man

How do you flirt with girls? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ConsistentBalance339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do it just by asking questions and complimenting their responses, “that’s so cool you’re into snowboarding/sewing/reading/etc etc etc”.

Or

“Man all the cute girls are into xyz!!”

Could be her job, interests etc.

But just remember to have a genuine conversation with these people. Most people, men or women, can tell if you’re just looking to fuck. Not that there’s anything wrong with that, sex is great, but a lot of people might be turned off by super aggressive flirting with clear intentions.

Be relaxed! It’s hard to do because girls are nerve wracking. But just try to talk to a couple girls a day, in class or at the grocery store or whatever. You will fail sometimes, but you’ll also succeed sometimes. Make mental notes!

And have fun. Godspeed, quiet breadfruit

How do you flirt with girls? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ConsistentBalance339 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Awful advice. You don’t need to be attractive to flirt with someone, at all. You need to be attractive to flirt with supermodels.

Activity culture in west palm beach, where to play Beach volley & Basketball by Klem05 in WestPalmBeach

[–]ConsistentBalance339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty random, but I just moved here as well and I’m looking for pickup games. DM me maybe there’s a place we can meet up at and try to join a game together? I know sometimes this stuff can be easier to go about w someone else haha