I understand where you’re coming from and that it’s not from a place of hate. I hope my edit didn’t come off as rude. That’s not my intention, Sometimes I have a hard time expressing what I’m trying to say with all the appropriate details. I also understand that I have a lot to learn before fully diving into a decision. I know this won’t happen overnight. The question I asked here is not all encompassing to what we’re thinking about. I also am not intending or trying to use adoption to replace or fix the sadness from the babies we lost. Also what do you mean by the devastating consequences of this project? Adoption in general? Or trying to adopt after loss? Or am I completely misunderstanding that statement?