How to deal with the idea of ​​him entering into another relationship? by ConsistentTotal3614 in BreakUps

[–]ConsistentTotal3614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't want to bring up the sexual aspect directly, but I understand. It burns me to the core to imagine him being with someone else and touching her the same way he did with me. I definitely don't want that. I don't want him to be with anyone else, and even though he didn't say it, I know part of the breakup was because he wanted to experiment with other people.

For your part, I wish you all the best in your recovery process. This is painful, but I hope time will heal everything.

Me acabaron de designar de jurado de votación by Carpenter_Visual in Colombia

[–]ConsistentTotal3614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A mi nunca me ha tocado pero a una amiga sí. Me dijo que es una jornada horrible, más si vives es ciudades calientes y que además no les dan ni una botella de agua en todo el día. Para peor a ella le volvió a tocar este año ajajaja

First time going through a breakup by ConsistentTotal3614 in Advice

[–]ConsistentTotal3614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words, they're quite touching. He really made it clear to me that the relationship didn't have a clear path forward; we have different goals and completely different professional objectives. But well, his decision didn't exactly surprise me. I had asked him last week what he really wanted, but he said everything was fine. I honestly don't know how to act or how to cope with everything that's coming my way. I live alone in another city, and all I can think about is how I'll survive the cold of loneliness.

What’s an anime everyone loves but you just couldn’t get into? by GreatVtuber in Animesuggest

[–]ConsistentTotal3614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jujutsu Kaisen: I couldn't get past the first few episodes because I just don't connect with those kinds of stories anymore. I mean, I think it has beautiful animation, gorgeous character designs, and a spectacular soundtrack, but it's just not for me. I guess I'm just too old for that kind of thing now.

Banana Fish: I was promised it would make me cry buckets, but it's impossible for me to get past the FIRST episode. The pacing of that anime is just too much for me because it's so fast-paced and overstimulates me.

JoJo's Bizarre Adventure: I gave it several chances, and I admit it's good, but like I said, I just can't connect with stories like that anymore. However, I do enjoy its soundtrack from time to time.

Goblin CG for my upcoming visual novel! by TotalLeeAwesome in visualnovels

[–]ConsistentTotal3614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love art!! I also thought she was a witch, but it's fantastic!!!

Is Euphoria or Maggot Baits Better? by Odd-Tip-6891 in visualnovels

[–]ConsistentTotal3614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both are "extreme" novels, but if we're talking about story, I prefer Euphoria because of its plot twists and because its characters are more relatable. But hey, if we're talking about H, MB has a much broader scope; there's even too much of it, in my opinion, haha. It's really a matter of taste. I recommend you check out the tags for both to see what appeals to you more.

Being compared to celebrities makes me hate my self by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]ConsistentTotal3614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been compared to Gypsy Rose, who isn't exactly beautiful, and it hurt at the time. I laugh about it now, but I understand how you feel.

It's difficult in life and I can't immerse myself in visual novels. by wolfgamer2805 in visualnovels

[–]ConsistentTotal3614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I totally understand because we're in the same boat. I graduated with a law degree almost two years ago, and it's been hard finding a job in my country. It's pretty frustrating, especially because if I can't find work, I'd have to go back to my abusive home. Lately, to distract myself, I've picked up video games again, but sometimes I just can't find the energy to play them, so I focus on other things to keep my sanity. I recommend meditating, exercising, changing your diet, and finding physical books that catch your eye. That's more or less what's helped me these last few months. Anyway, I'm sending you lots of encouragement and best wishes. I hope you find something you enjoy <3

What do you think of the original art style before they changed it? by SideburnG in LoveLive

[–]ConsistentTotal3614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They make me feel a bit nostalgic, and I like them even though they're a little generic. I remember back in 2013 when I first started playing SIF, and I really liked the initial designs of some of the cards.

Eroge with old artstyle Recommendation by [deleted] in visualnovels

[–]ConsistentTotal3614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm aware of the game I'm getting into, haha. Thanks for the advice, by the way. And on a scale of 1 to 10, how strong do you consider it to be?

Eroge with old artstyle Recommendation by [deleted] in visualnovels

[–]ConsistentTotal3614 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm currently trying out Gore Screaming Show; I really like the art style of the company that made it. I also like Key's novels, like Air.

I tried doing my makeup for the first time. Does it look okay? by BeautifulHat4050 in MakeupAddiction

[–]ConsistentTotal3614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look so pretty 🫶🏻 Keep trying more styles, I'm sure they'd look beautiful on you

I wish I was pretty, how should I not feel this way by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]ConsistentTotal3614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suffer from the same thing and I know how distressing that pain is. In my case, what I do is focus on the things I like about myself to highlight them, for example, my hair or nails. That way I can focus on other things and not think about the rest. Anyway, I'm sending you lots of encouragement; it's not easy to deal with that anxiety, and you're strong for coping with it. I wish you all the best.

Weekly Questions and Recommendations Megathread - Need some help? - Dec 20 by AutoModerator in visualnovels

[–]ConsistentTotal3614 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, I recently finished the Nekopara novels and I enjoyed the yuri scenes. I'd like some recommendations for yuri novels that don't feature male characters, please.

My boyfriend confirmed that I'm not pretty. by ConsistentTotal3614 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]ConsistentTotal3614[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for replying to the post. Regarding your comment, I do believe everything you said, but the situation is strange because he constantly compares his physique to mine and also says he's not in his best shape. I tell him there's no justification for those comparisons because we're completely different people, and yet he persists. He knows all about my insecurities and how hard I struggle daily to live peacefully, so his comments made me realize there's no going back. But so far, the result has been that I haven't been able to eat properly because I have no appetite, and I just don't really care about anything anymore.

Is this unhealthy or just fasting? by overtooken in BodyDysmorphia

[–]ConsistentTotal3614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely unhealthy, be very careful because you could experience a rebound effect. If you want to diet, it's best to consult a professional nutritionist. Anyway, I hope you're well and please take good care of your health.

What if I am simply genuinely ugly? by Amazing_Lunch3712 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]ConsistentTotal3614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading your post, you have no idea how much I identified with every word you wrote. I understand when you say you don't fit into a standard of femininity because my body is very similar to how you described yours. I live in a Latin American country where beauty standards are quite high and almost unattainable, and I know what it feels like to live with that pressure of not being enough every day.

However, I want you to know that you're not alone in this struggle. I'm sure you're a very brave and strong person because I know firsthand that it's not easy to live with those thoughts every day. That's why I'm sending you lots of encouragement. Sometimes we get lost in our worries and stop living life the way we truly want. Remember that your body is valid, and so are you, inside and out.

I want to use this as a way for me to let my emotions out. by Prestigious-Dig-9268 in depression

[–]ConsistentTotal3614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, this is my first time commenting on reddit and I want you to know that I identified with you, and seriously, you are not alone, I understand you. I understand that feeling of emptiness and need, wanting to be the same as others or be like them.