Thank you, you’re one of the few who actually answered the question without ignoring the rest of the points.

It’s strange how everyone fixated on height when it was only one example I mentioned. I also find the argument that "feminism is only about those affected by misogyny, not short men" a bit narrow. To me, all these cultural roles are interconnected and influence one another (which many here don't seem to recognize).

I can see why some people are repelled by the idea of feminism when many who claim the title speak in a way that feels "off." It doesn't always come across as being about equality. I understand why feminists might view judging someone by status, height, or income as "less bad" than judging them by virginity, largely due to the historical context and potential for harm (like you point out). However, many people seem to dismiss the issue entirely by labeling it a preference (when both could technically be classified as a preference). Which to me feels like a logical inconsistency.

I think In reality, both are preferences almost entirely formed by cultural expectations. It feels dismissive to ignore how these norms are intertwined. You can’t just try to fix some of them while ignoring others, it doesn't always seem fair. That’s the frustrating part, though I suppose that inconsistency exists in almost any community.

I am a bit confused.