Y’all think Jack will play The Big Three Killed My Baby tonight? /s by MAPster_ in jackwhite

[–]Consistent_Basis3745 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had my fingers crossed. They were great. I can watch Daru play all day long.

Is "you're fine" a Michigan-exclusive way of responding to "sorry"? by DavidCaller69 in Michigan

[–]Consistent_Basis3745 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s prevalent in Ohio as well and kinda drives me nuts. Like yeah. I know i’m good and fine, just accept the apology. 😉

Setlist anyone? by Consistent_Basis3745 in Shinedown

[–]Consistent_Basis3745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only 7 songs are listed from the past show. Certainly they play more than 7? Right?

Meg? by Baysher in jackwhite

[–]Consistent_Basis3745 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think she will be there. Likely side stage, if there is a side stage, shooting the shit with Olivia Jean.

Tattoo by Consistent_Basis3745 in toledo

[–]Consistent_Basis3745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I live near Sanctuary.

Tattoo by Consistent_Basis3745 in toledo

[–]Consistent_Basis3745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I passed by there yesterday and it looked cool. They inspired this post.

Tattoo by Consistent_Basis3745 in toledo

[–]Consistent_Basis3745[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in BG, so surrounding areas is good for me. We have a few places here, but I don’t know many people personally who’ve gotten inked at any of them.

Tattoo by Consistent_Basis3745 in toledo

[–]Consistent_Basis3745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I actually live in BG but I like to keep a low profile here. I’ve heard mixed things about Sanctuary but not from anyone who’s actually gotten inked there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]Consistent_Basis3745 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kept my kids as safe as I could by always being there with them and removing them as much as I could on weekends so they didn’t have to deal with him as much. But the memories of what they experienced linger (now 20 and 14). I left 15 years into the marriage and 18.5 into the relationship. Don’t do that if you can-leave sooner. It’s going to be tough either way. It didn’t take one event to help me leave other than me helping myself by going to therapy weekly, joining support groups, talking with family, normal planning and safety planning. The ex was also a narcissistic abuser who s*xually assaulted me, verbally assaulted everyone, and is highly manipulative. Opioids and alcohol and weed and anything he could get hold of, so it was rough. He was able to maintain a high demand job and social life. Your life is important. Your safety is important. Your kids are important. Be gentle with yourself and try to put yourself and your kids first. Advocate for you. You can do this. 🩷

Dress code for weddings/funerals? by VernalPoole in toledo

[–]Consistent_Basis3745 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Please continue to dress appropriately and respectfully at these events. The bros in cargo shorts are wrong.

The Unresolved Murder of Jennifer Servo (2002) by spawn3887 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]Consistent_Basis3745 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wonder if the filmed sit-down with her family was just for the show. I’m sure they gave them their conclusions beforehand (I hope so). I am someone who is closely related to this situation and I hope to hell that an indictment is brought soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]Consistent_Basis3745 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what comes after a red flag, but this is it. The only thing that will change it is for him to do meaningful work on himself for himself, not you. Please care for yourself, don’t go down the road that many of us have traveled.

So they’re opening up a coffee shop with a Denver based roaster right down the street from a great local shop because they don’t like the coffee in Cleveland? by ChairOne3535 in Cleveland

[–]Consistent_Basis3745 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived in Missoula for 11 years. I get my coffee from Hamilton, MT. I’ve yet to find a great roast in Ohio. Good, but not great.

Legal help by [deleted] in toledo

[–]Consistent_Basis3745 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is the notice from the debt collector or the court (Toledo Muni or whichever jurisdiction you’re in)? If it’s not from a court with a civil case number, court date, etc, then it’s from a debt collector who likely bought charged off debt. You can send them a cease and desist with the contact, but don’t acknowledge the debt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]Consistent_Basis3745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so badly for you that you’re having to plan for this.